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writes: So I recently moved to Dallas from Houston after my partner and I of 7 years separated. I'm still in love with him. I feel that ever since I had to let him go he has done better for himself. I believe that I was enabling him in so many ways. I also recently started dating after one year with this guy who lead me on. After I was vulnerable and let him in he completely friend zoned after I slept with him. How can I start finding healthy men to date? I'm also tired of the dating apps and random hook ups. Reply to this Question
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reader, NORA B  +, writes (1 December 2017):
Wait and give yourself time to heal,as you stated you are still in love with your soon to be ex-husband.On this level you are not in any mind set to start another relationship.It is never wise to hook up on random date,and can prove to be just a one night stand.Would you consider giving yourself..Me-Time...spoil yourself i.e buy something nice,arrange a night out with your friends,arrange a weekend away,join a club that you might be interested in for example..a night class with a subject you are interested in.a writers club,most clubs have male/female who are like minded people and you would have a chance to make new friends.Time is a great healer and things will get better.Kind regards NORA B.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (28 November 2017):
 My advice?
WAIT til your divorce is final. TAKE the time and work through getting OVER your soon-to-be ex-husband before jumping into the dating pool.
It's not FAIR to any potential guys that you are STILL carrying a torch for your almost ex-hubby. It also makes you seem like you really ARE NOT in the right mind to be dating, which in turn might be WHY you ended up with that guy who lead you on.
Focus on you for a while. Dating someone new will not fix your broken heart or make you forget you almost ex-hubby.
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