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male
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel abit stuck in a rut, I work part time while setting up a business and accepted I’m gay I liked a guy who I thought would like me, cause we have a few things in common and spoke a lot now and again. I was hoping it’d be a fairytale we’d end up together and I’d come out to family. Business would take off and we’d live happily ever after. It’s not worked out that way. I have no gay friends to talk to or hang out with, well I have one but he travels a lot, my close friends know I’m gay. But this is my frustration I’m distracted by the gay stuff and it’s putting a block on my business. I feel like I don’t fit in with other gays, I can’t fit in cause I don’t fit certain types. I try to focus on my work but then I’m obsessing how to fit in be one of the hot guys getting ripped to be more attractive. I’ve never been the insecure type but this is really getting to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2017): You firstly need friends you can trust and be honest with. You can tell that or those friends about your sexual orientation and go from there. Take baby steps. You're young so you can always pick up a college class and get to know some of the guys there. There are many. And just make friends. I hope you do get that fairytale love story.
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (26 November 2017):
 Do you know what a gay person looks like? Human. Do you know what a straight person looks like? Human.
Don't try to fit into a stereotype. Just be yourself, be realistic and be patient.
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