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anonymous
writes:My ex and I had a good 4yr relationship and was going to marry in the future but broke up because she said I didn't give her enough attention which really wasn't true. She found someone else a few months after the break but we're still friends and still talk. We used to go to church and bible study on occasion. I told her I didn't want to hang out as far as dining together etc. But anytime she wants to go to bible study just let me know. Well, her current boyfriend doesn't go to church and one day she asked me if she could go. I asked her what if your boyfriend calls one night and asks where you are. She said that she would just be with a friend. What does this mean? Is she putting me on the back-burner and as a last resort for marriage if it doesn't last with this guy or any other guy for that matter?
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2012):
 Yeah.. this is why EX partners can't be friends.
I see my ex and we are FRIENDLY but NOT friends... we chat and talk when we run into each other but that's it...
don't read anything into it....
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI forgot to mention that in a three day span she asked me to go to lunch one day and then she said that they were a couple and it wasn't a good idea to see each other. Then she asked me when was bible study? That was my confusion. I forgot to put that in.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 October 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI offered not because I wanted to get back with her but just because it was the right thing to do. I know how we use to fellowship together and I know that she isn't right now so I was just trying to do the Christian thing to do.
I knew that it was possible that we were never getting back together but I would still like to see her get back on the path including myself whether she's with her boyfriend or not. Thank you guys for taking the time to write back. Godbless!
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (22 October 2012):
did you or did you not tell her to contact you to go to bible study?
if you did, and she's doing just what you asked why is this suspect?
you offered... why did you offer?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (22 October 2012):
 I don't think so. She is doing what you suggested. You specifically said that if she wants to go to bible class, to let you know.
It would be a bit strange if she'd ask you out for other things that she can do with her bf ( dinner, dancing, etc. )- but if her bf won't go to bible class and you do, I don't see why she should not take you up on your offer.
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