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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:I like this guy so my cousin texted him for me. I was mad because he doesn't even know me. He is friends with my sister boyfriend and my cousin's boyfriend as well. She texted him right and asked where was he so he could go to Albany for a graduation thing with a group of my friends and relatives this was including two of his closets friends. So he pulled up him and his best friend at my house. I decided to jump in the limo because I was so scared. He texted me again and said Idk you and I texted him back and said I don't know you and you don't know me. He said Well my boy(my sisters boyfriend)told me you liked me and when I came you jumped in the car. I gave the phone back to my cousins cause she is better at this than me. So she told him why didn't you come to the car. He said he was scared my parents might say something. Then she said no they weren't he said send me a pix sense I don't know how you look. I not a ugly person, but I made sure I sent the best looking one in my phone. He texted back actually two minutes later saying he couldn't see my face, but I was scared of his response so I turned my phone off. I turned it back on when we was in the mall and that's when I read it. I texted back just an about an hour later saying well look harder there is a zoom. That's the advice from my cousin to say that. In a result no text back! Now I look back on it and realize that was sort of mean. Now people our telling me to text him back and talk to him. I can't bring my self to doing that because I don't want to look to clingy and because he doesn't even know me well enough to continue to text him. I like him I do, but maybe he doesn't like me maybe he doesn't think I am appealing. I don't know I really like this guy and now I'm suffering with lack of self-esteem over a non-reply to a text.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 I am still trying to figure out why you are letting other people control what you do.....why are you letting your cousins and your friends tell you how to behave with this guy? No one is an expert at dating or chatting up guys or gals...we all have our shyness and our insecurities but you make the best of it by being yourself...so what if you are shy and are not sure how to approach a guy...if he likes you enough, those things might be laughable and you will feel more comfortable with him eventually.How about instead of this ridiculous texting...pick up a phone...be mature and apologise for whatever mix up or silliness that happened that night or whenever and ask him if he wants to meet up to chit chat...go for a coffee or a movie or something....and for goodness sake...leave your silly friends at home.
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