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writes:Hi everyone1. Please i need help. Am so worried about getting dry whenever i am having sex with my boyfriend. On many occasions we have to stop d sex and use gel or saliva just to get wet before we continue. Please is there anything i can do to get wet naturally? Reply to this Question
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reader, kylieekristina  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 k, now, are you cumming? Don't focus on getting wet so much as really enjoying the act. When he caresses you think about how good it feels, when you feel him deep inside of you, think of how deep and good that feels. I found being a woman, I can almost have an orgasm on thoughts alone, and would have never achieved orgasm if i didnt learn how to relax, be comfortable, maybe even fantasise a little. The hotter your mind is, the hotter your coochie is, and the wetter she should get. I hope this answer isnt too much. Sorry if I offended anyone, I'm new to the page.
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reader, Hugh.J  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 Don't laugh - try GRAPE seed oil!
Not to be confused with rape seed oil, which is rather different.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (23 May 2011):
 I haven't found one yet... there's no crime in needing lube
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (23 May 2011):
 I don't think so. Continuing to use lubricant is a good idea if you feel you are getting dry. If you continue when dry you can end up hurting yourself, and the sex will also be painful.
However, I must ask if you use condoms? Condoms always dried me out faster. Which is why I don't like them, there is too much friction and sex can hurt. The plus side of not using a condom as contraceptive is that the man produces lubricant naturally, and plenty of it as well. If you don't use condoms, you would benefit from this by getting wet from his lubricant as well as your own. Especially rubbing the tip of the penis against your vagina and around the opening, this will make you wet and moist.
You must also try to relax. If you focus too much on getting wet or not, it wont happen. Take it as it comes. If you're not wet enough, and need to use extra lubricant, then don't get sad about it. That way you will remove some of the pressure. If you add pressure on yourself to get wet... you'll just get more dry. So take it as it comes, enjoy the sex you have, don't pressure yourself into anything.
I also recommend trying out new positions. I discovered that some positions trigger me the right way and make me wet, while others dry me out faster. This depends completely on each individual however, so what works for me will not work for you. But you could try different positions and see if there's a difference.
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