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Archived questions from: April, 2010 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

Into older men and don't know what to do about it! Help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5306 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I am 18 and I can not imagine myself with guys my age! I think there is a problem with me. Whenever I have a fantasy or anything about making out or having sex, I always see myself with old men, and by old I mean men in their 40s and 50s! I am a ...

Big age difference--I'm afraid of being rejected so I don't show how I feel

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5319 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I have met somebody who I find completely lovely in every way. He is funny, really smart, he makes me smile all the time, and we share a lot of the same interests, I feel like we kind of have a connection but I'm not sure if he feels the same way. ...

He's so great that I'm coming across as over-enthusiastic

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - i was introduced to a this really nice guy who's a lot like me. he's like me as well in the way that he doesn't quite like overly peppy people or people who smile the whole time. unfortunately when we meet i can't help but smile because he seems far ...

How do I tell him I don't like how he's changed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hey all, i have a huge problem: I've had a boyfriend for almost a year now. When we began to go out, he was really smart, funny, kind and fun to be around. That has since changed. He's starting to hang out with the wrong people, and i'm paying f...

Just found out after 2 years of dating he's married and has 3 kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi Ive been dating a guy for 2years and this morning I found out he was married with 3kids i am in total shock as i loved this guy i thought we had a future together its like the last 2years together have been a lie, I need help what do i do to mo...

Boyfriend putting her above us and its bothering me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Hi, I have a bit of a problem right now with my boyfriend and any help would be appreciated. So we've been dating for almost 4 months and we live about 40 minutes away from each other. Now, we're not used to seeing each other every day but us...

G/f and I sometimes have uncomfortable quiet spells..is there something wrong with that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5318 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hey, I've been with my girlfriend for just under four months now and everything is great, in general. We are pretty much always on the same wavelength and we're not totally obsessed with each other, both lead our separate lives and because of t...

I'm 18, she's 15 will the age difference be frowned upon?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Just a quick simple question.. A couple of days ago, a girl i'm good friends with asked me out, we get on like house on fire and have all the same interests and stuff but her age is bothering me alittle bit.. Im 18 in a matter of weeks and she's ...

Two lovers, One Broken heart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - ok so this is how it is. im lost between two men that i am deeply in love with. the first guy i met 4 years ago we dated and do to uncontrolable stuff we broke up and decided to stay friends, and until a couple days ago we were just friends who ...

I'm involved with one girl but in love with another and can't have her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Hello there, my story is a bit weird and idiotic... I was in to a relation from 17, which i think was too early for me to jump in to it because after a year or so i started to like another girl from my family and just couldnot get out of her thoug...

Why cant he just be happy with kissing me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I seem to have a bit of a problem with a guy, everytime we get together and kiss he always asks me to give him a blow job, the thing is we have just started kissing, it's really starting to annoy me because I like him a lot and I have said to him ...

What do guys consider a friend with benefits?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - What do guys consider a friend with benefits. I don't see a problem kissing someone, touching and possibly maybe giving a hand job or him fingering me as friend with benefits even if it happens a lot. I do think giving blow jobs, him going down...

How can I find a guy who wont mess me around or just want a bit of fun?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - hey, i know im only young but im fed up of being messed about by boys and want to find someone that is tidy for a change. when i go out i do get boys numbers but they always just want a bit of fun and nothing else. someone have suggested dating ...

Talking my mom into leting me having a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - im 15 and home schooled , im a larger girl (as a little chubby) i keep thinking to my self i want someone in my life to love and hold me , but being out of school i cant really find a boyfriend , my mom dosent even want me to get a boyfriend till...

His best friend wants to go out with me but a part of me is hoping the guy I love will come back to me, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I was talking to this guy for a year un-official and he just stopped talking to me without giving me a reason and now he has a new girlfriend and it hurts me so bad i told him many times i was in love with him but he act like he don't care i can't ...

Does this girl like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - Well theres a girl who ive been really really good friends with for years....we got so close we started calling each other brother and sister two years ago because we didnt really think about each other in that way... but on Australia Day this year ...

It seems obvious that he does like me but I'm starting to wonder if I am just a warm body to cuddle with!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - Thanks in advance for reading - I know this is long. Let me tell you what's going on first, then give you more information. There's this guy friend of mine who I've kind of been seeing lately - it's nothing official, but there's definitely somet...

Does losing his number mean we are not together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend just started going out(he is my 1st boyfriendand im 14 years old and he is 17 years old).. my cousin hooked us up we spent time together (2 time only because he live in queens and i live in the bronxs) i havent talked 2 him eve...

How can I convince my mother to accept my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

30 April 2010 (F) - I'm in an amazing relationship with my boyfriend of 5 months. He and I met in school once before, but lost touch until last December. My family is a traditional Southeast Asian family. I'm first generation Asian-American in our family. I'm very ...

Why am I so worried about getting in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5325 days ago

30 April 2010 (M) - I am 25, and have never really been in a relationship. I have hooked up but have never had a legit girlfriend. I always kind of longed for one but I always told myself I wanted to wait until I got a career, had my fun, travel and all that. Fast ...

Why is he only showing interest after I gave up and settled for friendship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - 6 months ago I gave up all hope of nabbing Mr.Married to his job/too busy for a relationship but recently it seems he has taken up more of a personal interest in my life. Who am I seeing? Any one catching my interest? Stating that I shouldn't date ...

Why does he ask me these strange questions in bed?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for almost 1 year with my guy. We both have previous marriages and have dealt with a lot of "Drama" from both sides over the past year. Our sex life is great! Every night.. and sometimes more than once in a night. ...

Is it okay to date my ex's friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago and he has moved on with another girl already. The thing is i now have developed feelings for one of his Bestfriends. I have known him all my life and we have some history. I'm not trying to get back...

Does he really care for me... or does he just want inside my pants?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I met this guy through an online dating site, we emailed back and forth for about a nite and texed about a week, went out on the first date and was instantly attracted to each other. We are both busy with school around this time of the year so in ...

My relationship is a real mess... I need your help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - hi, well i need some advice on what i can do about my 4 year relationship, I met my partner 4 years ago, at first we were happy and it was as if i was dreaming, my bf took my then 7 month old son like he was his own, and to this day he has alays...

Weird fantasy???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - Hello, thanks for your time! I'm 18 and in a long distance (Leeds to London) relationship with a man who is 45, he travels down every other weekend, it's been over a year we've been together now... To spice things up some more we decided we'd admit ...

She says she doesn't want to be FWB but isn't that what we are??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - How do I figure this girl out, before I start I have to say that I am a typical young bloke who is very open and honest. I am very attracted to a girl I work with and we have worked together for about 4 years, we flirt all the time, I was stra...

Is my girlfriend cheating on me... while on the phone with me??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I think my GF is cheating on me. I travel for work and I called her the other night and was really horny so we had phone sex. It just seemed too real. We were fantasizing about having sex and she starts getting into it a bit, but as time progr...

Has too much happened for us to have a chance of making it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I can't believe this happened the way it did but here goes. I went to a party with a girl I have been trying to get interested in me for weeks. She got extrememly drunk and she passed out. I took her to my place and she kinda woke up a little ...

Why cant he just admit he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Men irritate me lol. So I've known this dude for a few years now. I'm not sure if I like him, but I kinda think he likes me. This one time he comes up and stands to the side of me. He just kept staring at me- i kept on waiting for him to stop and to ...

Should I go for it despite being unsure if he is gay or straight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5321 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Hello, I am in love with my best friend but he's been in many straight relationships but after looking at everything I think he's gay too but it's against his religon! Well my best friend that was a really nice person that always helped me and wh...

Our sex life is so limited, how can I get her to open up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - *MOD NOTE - I have combined two of the OP's questions for clarity* My girlfriend, has had anal sex before, she said it hurt and she never tried it again. I truly doubt this. she had asked me about it before. i told how i was unsure and she left it a...

How long should a girl stick around for just because she loves the guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi out there. I was wondering if anyone has rekindled a relationship with someone who it just wasn't working with originally, and managed to resolve the issues? Problem is, I'm head over heels for this guy who I've spent most of my adult life wi...

I can't move past the fact he slept with someone else while we were not together.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I posted a question about my issue here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/cant-let-go-of-a-past-one-night.html I have discovered something else now and I'm hoping some of you can help me For those of you who don't want to read t...

Is it wrong that I am only dating him because he is a Doctor?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - Hi guys , This isn't so much as a problem but I would just like some thoughts. Last month I was on my mates hen weekend and whilst we were in a local pub another group of guys started chatting to us. None of them particulaly good looking. N...

Her actions suggest one thing, her words another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - There is a girl in my college..and we are best friends she lets me hold hands and is really comfortable with it.. she just broke up 6 months ago.She says that I am better than her ex.. but when i ask her out she says dat she doesn't love me.. s...

Is she stressed, scared, or over me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5325 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - hey, i am dating a 19 year old girl, and im 23. we met in december, quickly because close friends, and started to fool around. she had a short term boyfriend, whom after dating for two weeks, was sent to korea for half a year. she quickly there af...

She says she cant have a relationship coz he ex is stalking her!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I met this girl through playing tennis. We were just friends at first. She gives me her number. We speak regularly on the phone, text, e mail etc. Eventually we go on a date. It goes well. There is flirting from both of us, she tells me she ...

First Date Nerves.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I need your help! I'm finally going on my first date this week. And i'm really scared. Scared of being really shy and have nothing to say. And what if he thinks i'm boring? :O We've already talked once in real life(for like 1 min, that's how we ...

I like this girl and need some tips for asking her out!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I am 13 yearls old and well i like this girl and well im a litle over weight slightly not good looking... and one of her friends hate me. i tried asking her out today but i kind of got well really nervous and decided to kind of walk away, any tips i ...

My girlfriend is obsessed with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (?) - My girlfriend is obsessed with me! We're both 18 and both in out first proper relationship. We've been going out for nearly 3 months now and she's turned into such a bunny boiler it's actually scaring me. Seriously, we're apart for 5 minutes and she ...

I get so nervous and queasy around this guy...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (F) - I honestly don’t know what the matter with me is. Never in my life have I ever been this nervous and uncomfortable around a guy. I’ve been out on a few dates with him and they went fine. No sparks or fireworks or even instant chemistry. But lots and ...

The spark is gone in our relationship, is this letter appropriate to send?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5326 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - Dear all, Okay, where to start, been in relationship for 2 years, at first was the best, everything great and now she says spark has gone etc but whats to be with me, I still have that spark for her but really confused...anyway, I have written h...

How can we get out of the "just friends" zone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

29 April 2010 (M) - I have been friends with a girl Lora, since we were both in grade 3. We instantly became best friends I always thought she was cute but never really thought about dating her because it felt weird. We hang out all the time and it had caused some ...

My family hasn't even met my g/f and already they don't like her!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5315 days ago

28 April 2010 (?) - Ok. Basic story I had a great relationship of 7 1/2 years but there was always something missing, I always wondered if there was someone else out there. Well that someone came along, I really started to like this person because I work with her. It ...

Cool music, great hair, hot style, OH MY!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5324 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - Well, so I'm kind of having this problem here. I don't usually write on these kind of things, but I'm soooo confused... Ok, so, my friend set me up with this really hot guy. He's exactly what I look for in a guy... he loves the same kind of music I ...

Where and how can I fit in to this womans life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 April 2010 (M) - I am currently in an on/off relationship with a girl who is a single mum. While I care for this woman and enjoy her company I'm scared of commiting as I can't see things working out long term. Her little boy is a really good kid and I don't see any ...

Should I just keep acting this way until I never see him again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - My best buddy he has always been very nice to me at school. He's always nice to me on the bus. I really didnt talk to him much today and always act like myself when hes around. I always sit in front of him on the bus and he always puts his arms over ...

I want to keep in touch with him, but I don't know if I should! Things were fine until his ex spoke up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - hi i really need some brutal advice here!!! i met this guy in a pub, he works there, he gave me his number but he said that he is texting his ex but he would like to go for a drink with me at some point (and no he is not a player, a few of my frie...

I get so attached to guys!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5327 days ago

28 April 2010 (F) - I get so attached to guys. If I have a drunken kiss, or even just a nice conversation or flirt with a guy, I immediatyly start liking them. I really hate it. For example, I met a really nice on Friday night, he was obviously interested in me, ...