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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating "Craig" for about a year and 3 months. Things were awesome at first we were crazy about each other, couldn't get enough of each other until one day out of the blue, he changed. He doesn't tell me he loves me anymore even if I say it to him, he doesn't do the sweet stuff he used to, I asked him if he still wanted to be together and he said he doesn't want to lose me. He asked me to move in with him for the summer, and hoping it would bring us together I accepted as it was only for the summer, so I knew I could move back to my place after if it didn't work out. Things haven't changed much since moving in together, he only kisses me when one of us leaves or when we go to bed, sex is very rare, he just says he's tired all the time even though he constantly looks at porn. When we do have sex, right after he jumps up and puts his clothes on. He wants to buy a house together, which confuses me even more. Can anyone help me with this or give your insight? I'm so confused. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him, but I'm afraid it might happen, because there's only so much I can take of this. Thanks a million, looking forward to your replies.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): Wow that's actually a tough question...Seems to me you fell in love with him in the beginning when the guy tries his hardest to be loving, romantic etc to catch the girl, but now you're starting to see his real 'comfortable' side. This is just the real him, though he may love you and such, he probably is just a tired man and knowing he has you completely now, he no longer feels the need to put on the romantic front to reel you in... if that makes sense?
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