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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Lately I have been thinking of this guy I know I haven't seen him in a while,I know him from way back from school/college. I have always thought he liked me and I did have feelings for him, I even told him about how I felt in a note to him with my number. After all these things that have happened, I feel an urge to contact him. The only way this is possible is for me to get in touch with him on Facebook, I have 6 mutual friends with him. But I am so scared of what he would think, but I know at the time when he got my note he was delighted to receive that note. But I am worried now as that was sometime ago, would it be strange to add him just to see how he is doing? I'll be honest here I have never really spoke to him that much before, but I feel this urge all of a sudden from last week till now to get in contact. I thought I moved on but it doesn't seem like it right now. What should I do? :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): Hey there, sorry it took so long for you to get an answer. Okay, there is absolutely nothing awkward or weird about contacting him on facebook and I think you should probably do that before reading on.
You like him and I think that is reason enough for you to want to get back in touch with him so just send him a message saying that it's been a while and basically try to catch up on how he's been.
When he replies, give him your number so you can have an offline conversation because typing hurts the fingers. The two of you will have a mountain of things to talk about (school, college, current life) but at some point ask him if he's in a relationship.
If he isn't, you can mention the note and hint that you're still interested. Flirt, and try to arrange a date.
If you have any questions, feedback or hate mail, just tell me or another aunt( but I recommend me because I really wanna help).
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHelp me please! :/
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