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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:I feel like I've wasted a golden opportunity. Just over two months ago, the guy I'm after asked me out twice and I told him I wasn't ready just yet for a new relationship. Seven months prior to that, I had gotten out of an abusive relationship that lasted two years and it just wasn't fun getting over that.Well, now I feel ready for a new relationship, it is now nine months since I became single, and I feel like the guy I'm after isn't interested anymore. I mean, he still talks to me but I feel like he makes up excuses to not hang out with me. Granted, the guy was sick for a while (he had a cold, then the flu) and that put a damper on things.Well, he's better now and I don't know what to do anymore. Everytime I see him, I get all tongue-tied and I just want to ask him out myself! But I can't because he's just so amazing and he freaks me out on the inside.This all seems rather childish considering we're both in college, but I can't help it. I've "liked" the guy since my junior year of high school (he was a senior at the time) but we were both with people then, so nothing happened.What should I do? Just go for it? Reply to this Question
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reader, kristian  +, writes (4 September 2009):
hi look im a guy myself and ill tell you this if you really like the guy just cum out and say it to him belive me that is the best thing to do .dont get too exited or get ur hopes up just tell him ur interested and ask him how he feels about u.belive me if he like u the secend he nos u like him back he will be all over you??email me if you have any more questions!!xxxx
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