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Why do I have to wait hand and foot for this guy?

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Question - (4 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2009)
A female Canada age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I'm sick of loving my ex boyfriend. After everything he has done to me, I still wait hand and foot for him! He has broken every promise in the book. He has cheated on me, tried to control my life, broken up with me, and gotten back together with me a million times. He got me pregnant, acted excited, then got scared and ditched for his ex girlfriend, so I got an abortion, and he comes back and tries to say, he still loves me, and is going to get a tattoo of the birth date our baby was supposed to be born.

Like what is up with this guy? We are broken up, and I still waited for his phone call all night long, because he was suppose to come back today, after being with his ex girlfriend.

Like have I really lost that much self respect for myself? Why cant I just drop this guy for good?

Every time I have tried to walk away, he bangs on my door all night long, and has a tearfest! I always end up feeling sorry for him and I give in! Why is he doing this to me?!

I feel like I can't live without him...

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A female reader, PLAYFUL United States +, writes (4 September 2009):

PLAYFUL agony auntWell it looks like he just playing with you he knows thats you are in love with him and you do any thing to make him happy... so he going to keep playing games with your heart. and as for you baby thats to bad that he left you like that its better you forget him and move on with your life dont wait on him no more show him you dont need him, and you dont you could get much better then him so take your love and dont go back to him dont even look back do it for your own good..xoxo

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

love is truely from your side not from his.stop going after him ,he is not your type.after so many harms and betrayal still you love him is unbelievable.but i believe you as i too past such circumstances.i then let go of him and felt much relieved

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A male reader, Denizen United Kingdom +, writes (4 September 2009):

Denizen agony auntYou are in a toxic relationship. He isn't going to change and neither are you. The only solution is distance between you and give yourself the chance to meet someone who really cares for you.

Believe me there is no future for you in this relationship.

You will be happy in the future but not with this person.

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