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30-35,
*rishii
writes:ok, i´m 20 (people think i´m a bit older cause i look older and i´m very mature) i´m a good looking woman and i´m interested in a guy that is 35 and single (he is totally single so that´s not a issue here) and he gives class in 2 of my classes in college (technically he is not a "teacher" and in Argentina we treat this subject easier -less restricted- than you), and these past month i´ve been noticing some sign that he might feel a bit attracted: he seems to look hold eye contact with me longer than with other classmates (my friends noticed that too, they say "if i did´t know that you like him i would notice that he looks at you more and in a different way anyway"), when he makes a question to the class he always looks at me to see if i´ll answer and when i do he makes me keep talking. Last weekend i went with 2 friends to the bar where he was celebrating his b´day we saw how other student went to hug him and congratulate him and he said a short hi and dismissed them quickly (in a polite way) but when he saw (my friend saws he saw us coming, maybe he didn´t) that me and m friends were going his way he separated from his group to stand alone and when he saw us he smiled at us and tried to make small talk and didn´t seemed to want to get away from us like he did with the others (my friend said hat he even made a lame joke cause he was nervous), that day i also noticed that he looked my way several times (behind me stood a group of guys so...) and in one occasion while he looked my way he grab a friend of his (also a teacher of mine) and said something that caused the guy to also looked my way and say something back to him (both of them smiling conspiratorially)...and yesterday we were talking in class about a famous criminal and he said from which neighbourhood the guy was from and my classmates teased me cause i´m from there and he immediately asked me on which street do i live and i explained that i´m from the neighbourhood next to the one of the story, and he said "oh yeah, i think it was actually that one, which street are you from again?"...ok in 2 weeks we are going to a camp in the middle of nowhere with other 15 people and i´m thinking of throwing him hint or suggestions, do you think he is interested and i have a shot and something may actually happen or not? and please don´t say "go and talk to him and tell him the truth" cause i can´t cause if he is not interested he is going to be my "teacher" for another year and a half and if i talk with him and he rejects me it´s going to be terribly awkward...
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009): I think you should ask him if he wants to come with. If he say's yes to that flirt with him on the trip a lil. If he flirts back then go for it!!
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 ok drop hints your interested also but dont tell too many people what you are doing incase it gets out and he hears about it because then itl be awkward just drop hints like eye contact smiling and slight flirting and maybe see what he does he might talk to you about this and then see what happens but i wouldnt make it too obvious incase your misjudging it
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