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Should I force him to have sex with another woman?

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Question - (4 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 5 September 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

This may sound weird but am I crazy for wanting my fiance to have sex with and date other women before we get married? He hasn't taken me up on the offers and says at most he just wants to feel a large pair of breasts but I feel insecure that I am not enough for him and my lack of ability to maintain a diet of less than 1200 calories a day makes me not deserve him. I just want him to experience others so he can be sure he's okay spending his life with me. Am I absolutely nuts? If this sounds very unhealthy to you, how do you suggest I help myself or the situation? I'm nervous because were supposed to move in with each other in 3months. Thank you for your help and concern its appreciated

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009):

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He doesn't want a threesome either. Gina thank you for your advice I amhoping to attend counseling for my insecurities prior to marriage and possibly do some soul searching.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2009):

Have a threesome??

He proberly thinks its a test.Its unfair for a woman to say that. If my GF said that to me, it would make me think that she wants to try other penises.. and me being her BF woudnt wantthat lol

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