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writes:Okay, there's this boy at my school that at a time I REALLY liked. I gave him a rose for valentine's day and a candy cane for christmas. Of course i signed both anonymous, due to the chicken that I am. Everyone told me he found out who it was anyways. After finding out he still never said a word to me and eventually asked out a girl in our grade who said no and then he asked a girl in the grade below us out and she said yes. I'm not sure if they're still together considering it's been a full summer and something could of happened, but 2 day ago we had an Open House at our school because we're going to be starting school in a couple days here. While i was there i passed him 3 times and each time i just looked down and avoided eye contact because my heart pretty much leaps at the sight of him. I'm always afraid to see him because whenever I do i tend to accidentally meet his eyes and then i get this feeling that he knows i never really stopped liking him. It kind of feels like now (since i'm trying to ge over him) that there's like some kind of invisible tension between us. I'm trying to move on and focus on this other boy that i've gained a liking to and who I have so much more in common with but it's like my heart and mind always go back to this first boy whom i hardly know anything about and who i've literally never spoken to. It seems like it's impossible for me to ever get over him no matter how much i try. What am I supposed to do to stop my feelings for him? I shouldn't feel this deeply for him. It just doesn't make any sense. Anybody else ever have a situation similar to this?Thanks for any advice :)
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (4 September 2009):
 You need to get over the embarassment that he knows it was you. unfortunately i dont think he feels the same way you do, otherwise he would have asked you out or came and spoke to you. its just a crush and youll get over it in time. theres nothing you can really do about it, just concentrate on the other guy for now the feeling will go away at some stage.
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