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Not even a peck yet! Should I make a move?

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Question - (4 September 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 4 September 2009)
A female United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks...we both have expressed interest in each other. BUT, so far not even a peck! I know he is shy and wants to take things slow. But, the tension is killing me! Should I make a move? Will he be put off by it?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (4 September 2009):

Blimey, I'd say this doesn't bode that well for a man/woman relationship. Do you really want a shy reserved and possibly repressed boyfriend, it's not normal. Personally I would want a bloke who couldn't keep his hands off me. For god's sake don't wind up with the non sexual bloke. It's an absolute killer.x

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A female reader, aisforacting United States +, writes (4 September 2009):

aisforacting agony auntMake the first move. He is probably just as nervous as you.

State your independence. I'm sure he will like it(:

goodluck!

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (4 September 2009):

birdynumnums agony auntI think a couple of weeks at least warrants a kiss. If you can steel your nerve - make the first move. At least, you will find out if he wants to become more than friends...

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