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anonymous
writes:ok this might sound stupid but please let me know wot u think. need a girls perspective.I was changeing into my swimming trunks one day to go swimming in a river. as i was changeing one of the girls that was with us caught a glimpse of my penis. I hadnt got into the freezing water yet and it was a boiling day so my manhood wasnt in an embarrassing way.lol.Anyway she made a comment saying how big it is. Eversince that day the group of girls that sometimes hang around with me and my mates, sometimes mention jokingly and flirtatiousley about my penis. Theyve obviousley spoken a lot about it and i think because theyve not actually seen it their really exaggerating how big it is. Anyway its become a little bit of a big thing now. the problem is me and one of these girls really like eachother, and may be about to get together. I worry that shes got these great expectations of me having a really big one (cos shes mentioned it in the past) but its really not that big at all. its 6" long and 5 and a half inches around, which is average but not big in the slightest! Do u think wen she sees it she will be dissapointed or think i was expecting bigger? Its making me not want to sleep with her!
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (23 June 2009):
She'll be fine.
It's just a giggle for the girls and she is not going to be taking it too seriously.
As long as you are caring and loving then you'll be fine in bed. It really is what you do with it that counts.
Good Luck!! xx
PS. CONDOMS!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2009): well i dont think she would be disappointed i mean..come on it is big enough..and you havent gone out so you have much to make clear and to catch up ya know? maybe if that subject comes up you can tell her "you know it really isnt as big as they were claiming its only...(wutever the size is)"
goodluck with her (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Thanks to all of you for your help.
I wasnt really looking for tips on how to please a woman.lol
And i do not have any misconceptions of the female genitalia, dont really know where that came from.
I think some read the question and ran with it a bit.lol
All I wanted to know was if this girl would be dissapointed because shes obviousely built it up in her head that its really big. It might be like a bit of a fantasy thing for her being with a big guy, whether or not in reality that would actually be better for her.
also my oral skills are absolutely phenominal. ;p lol x
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): She fancies you, you're not going to jump into bed straight away, on top of this i am sure that she doesn't fancy you just because she has heard that it was big
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reader, fubr  +, writes (20 June 2009):
its not all bout the size baby...if theres any passion between you then that makes up for a whole lot...besides that you havent even been out with her...she might not even give it up and even if she does, do you want her to think you thought she was easy???
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Hi there, well congratulations on being known around town as well hung...just kidding, really, what is wrong with people today? There is such a thing as good manners and to comment on your penis is uncouth and ignorant and I would have shot them down immediately with a comeback..but too late for that now.
I would not worry about this girl being dissappointed with your size, I agree Older Sister in that too big is uncomfortable, and really really small is not so ideal for me at least as my anatomy calls for something else, although women's vagina length ranges from as short as 2 inches to as long as 9 inches, so women vary in length as well. A vagina will stretch to accommodate any thing that is stuck in there with in reason, but a woman does not want to be uncomfortable during sex. The size or length of a vagina for women has nothing to so with how petite she is or how tall she is, much like penis size for men, has nothing to do with the rest of your size.
But I as many women do prefer orgasms from vaginal intercourse not oral sex referred to as a vaginal orgasm, a clitoral one is nice too and we are so lucky that we can go either way when we want too.
But your size is about perfect for most women so don't stress out about it and next time someone says something to you about it, tell them to jump off of a cliff or something, OK?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Hi there, well congratulations on being known around town as well hung...just kidding, really, what is wrong with people today? There is such a thing as good manners and to comment on your penis is uncouth and ignorant and I would have shot them down immediately with a comeback..but too late for that now.
I would not worry about this girl being dissappointed with your size, I agree Older Sister in that too big is uncomfortable, and really really small is not so ideal for me at least as my anatomy calls for something else, although women's vagina length ranges from as short as 2 inches to as long as 9 inches, so women vary in length as well. A vagina will stretch to accommodate any thing that is stuck in there with in reason, but a woman does not want to be uncomfortable during sex. The size or leng
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): Next time they make the comments around you, try to diffuse them a little. Just say, "man, my dick's not even that huge! I don't know if you saw it at just the right angle or what. This is getting built up a little too much."
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reader, SirenaBlusera  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 Whoa... Satin has really said it all.
I'm a bit direct myself :-), so I'll add my two cents' worth... it's so hard to find a guy who is nice, and honest, and decent and doesn't crush my soul. If I found someone like that who reciprocated my feelings, then I wouldn't give a crap if his penis were two centimeters long.
I have a biology background and I can tell you that you know you're normal for a human... there are VERY few women who would choose their partner based on whether or not he has a brobdignagian size penis. If that were true, we would all have sex with a horse, like Catherine the Great (I recently found out, by the way, that Catherine the Great did NOT attempt sex with a horse... my bad... but that's another story). :)
I agree with Satin, there are more important things.
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