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writes:I really like this boy and he has a gf , but keeps telling me he loves me , and asking me to wait until this girl he's going out with dumps him until he can go out with me (which he thinks wont be that long) And ive just dumped my boyfriend for him , and he still hasnt dumped her ... what on earth shold i do ? Thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, Starlights +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Its not a surprise your feeling depressed!It sounds to me like you really like this guy, but unfortunately he doesnt seem that into you. Im sorry to be so blunt but rather you here it from someone who knows then to waste your precious time pining for him! life's too short!msg him and ask him why he hasnt kept his end of the bargain? and see what he replies, he probably give you an excuse or two, you dont need someone like that! try and cheer yourself up and not dwell on him.
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reader, QuirkLady  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Don't even bother with him. If he can't find the nerve to dump his girlfriend he isn't worth dating. In fact, he was testing you to see how much you want him and what you will do for him, and now he knows you'll do just about anything he wants. If you wait around and end up in a relationship with him you will be miserable. Trust me on this, MISERABLE.
A guy's actions will show you how he will treat you.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really need help to tell him if just not to bother or should i wait im just a bit depressed over it all so it would help to sort it out
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): I think hes used you unfortunately. Hes made you dump your boyfriend i think without the intention of actually dumping his girlfriend.
however i could be wrong so ask him why hes not dumped her when you went and dumped your boyfriend for him.ask him if he actually wants to be with you and if not then thats fine because it was actually your choice to go and dump your boyfriend.you werent made to.
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reader, hijacked_dignity +, writes (20 June 2009):
 First off, you should never believe a guy who says they will 'eventually' be single for just you. They are lying. If this guy really wanted to be with you instead of this other girl, he would have dumped her already. Sorry. It's just common sense. You dumping your boyfriend says that you like this guy better than the other guy, which is why it's good that you dumped him. You were obviously settling. Anyway! Bottom line, this guy won't dump his girlfriend. He will stay with her and have you on the side. It's the perfect set up for him. He gets the comfort of having someone to fall back on, and he gets someone to have an exciting fling with too. You like a lot of girls out there has fallen into this little situation. What would I do? Forget about him, somehow tell his girlfriend that he loves you, and move on! Haha. He's not worth your time, and you are foolish if you think otherwise. Do yourself a favor, get out of this and keep your dignity. You'll thank yourself later.
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reader, Starlights +, writes (20 June 2009):
To be honest i dont think this guy is going to dump this girl for you, he seems to be taking his time, or maybe he's having second thoughts.
Take it from my experience;
The best thing for you to do, is try and move on with your life and let him make the necessary steps towards you.
To be honest, once a cheat , likely is to cheat again so dont hold out on this guy staying with you too long even if he does dump his girlfriend.
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