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*nonymous_jp
writes:hey guys.i finally dumped my girlfriend and we are both breaking down. it was horrible, she wanted to try and make things better but i said i didnt believe it could until we got our heads right (we both are messed up). we have agreed to stay best friends. will that be weird? i feel sooo horrible about this but she is so messed up that everything was bringing me down and i was failing school and depressed all the time, because she was depressed. when we were talking about everything we started kissing and half way through we both broke down. we knew that once we left that room we wouldnt be together anymore.we still love each other but it hasnt been working, we've been fighting so much and we hadnt spoken for 4 days before we split (last night).shes so complicated, bitchy, depressive and has so much baggage it all brought me down. yet somehow i think ive made one of the biggest mistakes of my life.did i do the right thing?
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reader, love-struckxo  +, writes (20 June 2009):
 It's normal to feel like you made a big mistake after breaking up with someone. That's why you have to have confidence in your desicion making.
Clearing it wasn't working out - but something is making you feel like maybe it could of, but your probably wrong.
You can't change what has happened through out your relationship, and maybe if you guys could of done things differently, you guys would still be together right now.
But you can't dwell on that, you can't make desicions on what could of happened. Wishing, hoping and praying that things will change - won't make them change unfortuantley.
You just have to walk away and know you made the right desicion.
Only time will tell, maybe you guys will end up back together in the long run, but right now just walk away and get your head straight.
Take care
xxxxxx
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