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male
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: My g/f And i have gone out or 7 months. She has Now told me that she loves another guy and Always has throughout our relationship. I had asked her before but she said she didnt, which is lying. The boy dislikes me and is trying to get my g/f to break up with me. She is oblivous to it and I've told her many times what he is doing. Also online games she plays with the boy they have sometype of "Sex Game" and flirts with each other, and she say they dont even though i have seen it with my own eyes.Should i just end this? I love her very dearly and i dont know how i could break up With her :\
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reader, thatgothgirl20 +, writes (21 June 2009):
Let her go. She's treating you like you are stupid or something. You saw what she was doing "with your own eyes," and she still denies it, as if you didn't see it.
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reader, diobolicmuphin +, writes (21 June 2009):
I don't know you, but you seem very sincere and I would say you're better than this.. All she's doing is disrespecting you. She's lying to you, has been lying to you and who knows what else. I personally, would sit my partner down with an ultimatum. If they can't fix it themself, you're not going to stick around for the hurt. A good relationship should be built on respect, honesty and trust. She's not respecting you, she's been dishonest and you can't trust her apparently. My belief is that you cannot truly love anything until you realize that it may be lost. Maybe she needs a jolt of reality. I'm not suggesting that you end the relationship, but really weigh things out for yourself. Sounds to me like you've gotten the short end of the stick here.
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