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female
age
26-29,
*ssues
writes:dear cupid,theres this guy that i was kinda on and off about for a while but finally started liking for two weeks he flirted with me and i genuinely though he liked me back. then a week before school ends when i finally bring up enough courage to ask him out he TOTALLY!! ignores me and it just drives me crazy! and im usually too shy to confront any one so i didint do anything (because i thought he would push me away) about it but on the last day of school i saw him with another one of my friends, who by the way for some reason doesn't want to be friends anymore, holding hands and i was crushed. since then i have been extremely sad and i've been crying for about 4 hours. this had happened before to 3 other guys but with a different situation. my problem is i don't know how to get over him when i never dated him. XOXO,issues
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (21 June 2009):
 Hello there!
well my first advice is dont be hard on yourself... you really liked this guy and you made it clear to him and then he acted like a jerk!
first lesson you learnt = not all boys are good!
you cant go handing your feeling over to any guy, you have to take patience and time to find the decent guy who'd treat you with respect.
Plus if i was you, being your age i'd concentrate on my studies rather then being concerned with a boy, if the right boy comes along and treats you right... great! if not try concentrating getting through school.
( i know this feeling, when i was ur age boys be asking me out but i had to do the right thing which was concentrate on school, it was only years later i got my first bf, and years later than that i met my knight in shining armour ;) )
p.s
dont be heart broken, its a lesson, and life's gonna throw more tests at you, so be strong, and cheer yourself up with spending school times with good friends! you can never get your school years back, so make sure to fill them with good memories, not of idiotic boys!
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