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writes:my life is hell! im 16 and my mom treats me like a child. she wont let me leave the house unless she knws there's going to be an adult there and she has to know them. her boyfriend lives with us and all he does is sit on his lazy doesnt pay bills and yells all the time. and my boyfriend is no better all he does is complain about our relationship and says hurtful things to me. im just so stressed out! any solutions? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): 1. Your mom is right, you are still a child, and she is perfectly entitled to watch out for you - she's your mom and that's what she's supposed to do.
2. You can't change who your mom chooses as her boyfriend. All you can do is try to be civil with him and leave it to your mom to deal with.
3. If your boyfriend is not working out, either end it or try to fix the problem. You don't give much information so who can say what the problem is?
Part of being an adult is taking ownership, taking responsibility for the choices you make in life. If you are unhappy, take steps towards fixing the problem. You can't even be bothered to explain your story fully to the people here so don't expect a very helpful or in depth response. Every teenager thinks "my life is hell!", you are not alone. You might try chatting with your mom about your problems, i am almost 100% sure that she would be so happy to talk to you, and to help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 June 2009): 1) shes your mum all mums worry about their kids talk to her about it and explain to ehr you can be trusted
2) not much you can do about this its yuor mums choice
3) finish him you deserve better and i know its hard if you love him but yo dont need someone like that in your life
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