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writes:I know this is stupid. I want to know how can I talk to my boyfriend after we got into a fight. I felt that we were serious enough to let him have my cell phone until we got our house phone back on. everything went fine that day-- and we even talked when we got home. (I spent the night over my father's house because it was close to work.) He called me asking me how much I love him and why I have pictures of men in my phone. I responed that he have naked women in his phone and I do not say anything. I drove back to our house and tried to talk and prove to him that the dates on the pictures were the time we were not together. He did not want to listen. Next thing I knew, he was calling the police on me and started hitting me with a 2feet long by 3.5 inch paddle! The qusetion is that even though I pressed charges against him, I want to know why he did that instead of saying he did not want me anymore....How do I ask him? Reply to this Question
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (7 November 2008):
You don't ask him. You leave and never go back.
He hit you. The fact that he called the police first suggests the violence was not all one way.
This was a serious assault. All you need to know is that any man who can do that to someone he is supposed to care about is a psycho and has no logic.
He's a violent man. Get him out of your life.
Good Luck!! xx
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