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writes:Hi Everyone,I have been dating this girl (# 1) (28 years old) for 8 months. Months ago she basically said only friend status. Days later from that she went on vacation and I met another women. I dated her (lets call her # 2) for a couple months and she moved away. #1 knew all about her. I still kept in touch with #1 while with # 2.I started seeing #1 more frequently. She is not one to talk about feelings. She's been burnt a few times and said she's in no rush.Is she testing me?Last week Wed night she kinda blew me off. Said she was tired. Then Thursday night the same thing. Friday came and I thought to myself, Is she trying to get a harsh reaction from me? Since we're just dating I don't think I can be harsh about it. I finally texted her in the afternoon(Friday) and did not even mention the past two nights. Like it never happened. Is that the correct response from me?Friday night (Halloween) she stayed over for the first time. No sex... but everything else.Did she stay over Friday because I did not respond harsh to the Wed., Thurs. blow off?Thursday - a week later she sent me a link with all her pictures from Halloween. There was a picture from last Wed night (when she blew me off and said she was not going out) She was dressed up with friends.Again, she knows I remember this. Is she testing me?Do I say nothing?Better question is .. How do I finally have sex with her to conquer this thing?Thanks for all the help.I'm 31 years old.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 November 2008): Goodness Gracious!
I completely agree with Pepper.What would she need to test you for?
If I read the post right, she is not giving you any signals at all.
She is just enjoying her life and having fun.
Conquer seems such a chauvinistic word.or is it just me.
She is a human being not a piece of land.
you will always be left wondering about signals if you don't make some changes in your thinking pattern very soon.Stop treating women like belongings.
Maybe then you will be "conquered".
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reader, pepper27  +, writes (15 November 2008):
 Why inst there more answers to this?????????????????????
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reader, pepper27 +, writes (14 November 2008):
Hi Hunny
How do I finally have sex with her to conquer this thing?
Your not climbing mount Everest sweetheart, She sounds as if she is quite happy doing her own thing and maybe she didn't feel like telling you she was out with friends as she may have felt under pressure because of past issues with relationships...She has sent you some photo's so she has nothing to hide love, OK she said she wasn't out but she was if this is nothing serious then what is the problem... Talk to her if you feel betrayed. I've done the same thing.. NO I'M NOT GOING OUT! Awhile later friends phone and I'm gone, Without a thought..What is it she may be testing you for love...If she new you wanted to conquer her Id think she may be less approachable..If some fella said that about me, oh f***...What you said there whoops! Mate Id seriously laugh and walk away she may not feel like sex with you at this moment in time, She may not feel ready or even want to full stop... You I feel are analysing to much hunny, The best way to find out what she is thinking is to speak with her...TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXX
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