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How can I test my boyfriend?

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Question - (7 November 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hey guys just want some help... I dont really trust my boyfriend and I just want some reassuarnce that he isn't cheating... I want to see what he is like when I'm not around and when he is with other girls... I know this is slightly an extreme way but I just need 2 see for myself just for once... just to put my mind at ease...

How can you find this out or even have some reassurance in the sense that I know when/if he is up to no good... please help desperate needd???

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2008):

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thanks so much shadopaw lol for actually answering my question lol i know the whole you should trust him routine/lecture i just wanted to know how i can really test him :) thank u :)

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A male reader, shadopaw United States +, writes (7 November 2008):

shadopaw agony auntmiss birdy never answered your question take this from guy yeah we say our word is da truth but its a lie didnt expect that you lose the battle when you let him do what do so here is the ANSWER to your QUESTION - i got this one miss birdy

A:if you have a friend he does not know have her flirt with him and tell you what he did

B:when you two talk if he start lookin at girls *** then you know if he is a little flirty

C: now to know if he is cheating ask some random girl to ask your boyfriend if he got a girl if he says no or not really he cheatin end to that

P.S. i know my girl hit me with those but im not a cheater so ha ha on her still love her though so i believe test show that you really care from someone born in your decade

( not miss birdie) jklol

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (7 November 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntThis is just playing games and truly hurtful behavior. Honestly my Dear, if you have to "test" someone, you have already lost the battle. And if he ever found out that you have no faith in him, you would crush his belief in your love. Men are pretty touchy about being honourable, it's a guy thing, and they say things like "My word is my bond" and make deals on handshakes. Don't go there!

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