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writes:Ok im 21 i've wrote to this a couple of times for a couple different reasons you might reconize my name.....anyways i have a new delima..the first girl i was ever with in high school when i was 15 the one i experimented on...i haven't spoke to in 5 years give or take well she found me on myspace about a month ago and i gave her my number just to catch up see what she was doing with her life we had both grown up a lot and been through a lot of different experiences....when i was in high school i wasn't sure what i wanted i was so confused about my sexuality and people being mean for the way i was i just couldn't take it so to satisfy everyone including family i remained straight and dated guys but i knew there was something missing ....so eventually i met my current girlfriend i am with now and who i've been with for 3yrs....yeah we have our ups and downs but more downs than ups that a whole nother situation....so anyways gurl from highschool calls me she starts telling me how im the only girl that ever made her truley happy theres not a day that goes by that she doesn't think about me im the only one she has ever loved and she compares everyone she is with to me after all these years....she thinks im so beautiful and we have changed so much as people that our personalitys would be perfect for one another....you know she is still as beautiful as she was and yes i fell in love with her in high school but i was so worried about my reputation and what my family would think i set that all aside despite how i felt about her but i do still think about her and even more now that i've talk to her after all these years i just felt some connection with her i haven't felt in a long time or ever for that matter....i've already been haveing problems with my current girlfriend now all of a sudden i get this phone call and all i can do is think about my high school girl and how it will probably work out and im almost positive i would be way happier than i am now but i love my girlfriend very much but i am falling out of love with her i don't know what to do with my self i have so many mixed emotions should i go with my gut??? or be single for awhile and actually figure out if this is what i really want??? i don't know what to do please help me!!!
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (7 November 2008):
 its kinda fishy that this girl seems so in love with you after a couple of years, kinda out of the blue. I would be careful with the high school girl just seems too random... I would say if you're having issues with your current girl friend and don't really see it going anywhere to give the high school girl a shot just be carful not to open up so easily. She should have to gain your trust first... no matter what... all it could be is just good memories... or it can be something more... only you can really decide this...
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reader, michele21 +, writes (7 November 2008):
michele21 is verified as being by the original poster of the question oh and meanwhile the ex she is unhappy with her girl right now that she is with so maybe im a scape goat for her to leave and start over new something different not to mention i live over 3,000 miles away from her so she would completly have to start over fresh.......forgot to add that in
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reader, mysterywoman +, writes (7 November 2008):
If I may address your current relationship first... If your heart is not in the right place with your girlfriend then maybe it is time to part ways while still on good terms... no matter what the underlying reason. I dated a man who I later found out was interested in a married woman but still kept me as his girlfriend until she seperated with her husband. Then the second this woman was available I was kicked to the curb with a few boxes of kleenex's, no appetite and countless sleepless nights.
Personally I don't think jumping out of one relationship into the next is healthy for you... and yes, it happens a lot to many people and I have been one of them. But if this woman makes your heart race then follow your heart. Life is short, live it with the ones you love, take advantage of every minute and hopefully when you lay down at night you will truly be thankful for all the little blessings you have been given. Good luck.
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reader, Beth:answers:you  +, writes (7 November 2008):
 Hi, if you ask me, (and I have helped people a lot with situations like this)I would certainly go out with the girlfriend from high school as you are having trouble with your current girlfriend anyway. The high school girlfriend seems very interested in you. Dump your current girlfriend and go out with the high school girl. See how it goes, if it doesn't work out, just tell her the truth and become a single pringle!
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