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anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend with whom I was with for eight months, decided one day he would leave me without telling me and go back to his ex-wife. Since he left me I have met a really nice guy, the problem now is that my ex boyfriend has come back into the area and wants to crawl back in my life, like nothing has happened, he is non stop phoning, texting, e-mailing and has even got his sister to tell me that he messed up with me and wants us to get back together, his sister has told me that he plans to tell my new boyfriend that he intends to get me back and will do anything he has to for this to happen, do I tell me new boyfriend about what has happened or do I let it go and hope that my ex boyfriend does not contact him as recently my new boyfriend has been very moody with his work load.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2008): Tell your new boyfriend as you wouldn't want him finding out any other way would you.
You can block your ex from phoning you if you say it is a nuisance call. You can also block him from your email. If you don't want him, tell him you want to be left alone. He sound totally selfish.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2008): Your ex sounds to me as being very arrogant, dump him, forget him and tell him that your not interested anymore as you are with somebody else, if he still contacts you i would get a court order on him, as this will mean you are doing business, and mean it.
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reader, Artistry  +, writes (8 November 2008):
 Hi, It seems you are interested in staying with your current boyfriend, which I think would be the best thing.
Your ex is only interested in what he wants, notice what he said to his sister. What about you? He doesn't care if you want him or not, that's a lot of gall, he left when he wanted, and he'll come back when he wants. I don't think so, this is your life, he is too wishy washy and very selfish, your ex. Do tell you boyfriend what he said, so that he is kept in the loop, tell your ex, that you are not interested and make sure he understands. Do not meet him for any kind of talk, he didn't talk when he left. Good luck to you, stay with the better guy. Take it easy. Stay in touch.
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reader, hlskitten +, writes (8 November 2008):
 You dont say if your ex is still with the one he left you for or not. Although thats really not relivant. I would of loved to of been in your shoes and told the ex to do 1!!! I'm sure a lot would of like to do the same thing with an ex too.
Stick with the status quo. A bloke that leaves yo to go back with an ex, isn't your Mr right. You can do better. And if you leave you bloke to go back to that ex, you're not his Ms right, etc, if you catch my drift.
C xxxxx
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (7 November 2008):
You have not said who you want but I am going to assume you want to stay with your current boyfriend and get this creep of an ex out of your life.
He left you once without caring about how much he hurt. He'll do it again.
Tell your current boyfriend that your ex has been in touch and won't leave you alone. Tell him what the ex's sister said.
Then call your ex, in front of your boyfriend and tell him that if he doesn't leave you alone you will go to the police and have him done for harassment.
Getting someone to tell you that "he's going to get your boyfriend and tell him he'll do what ever it takes to get rid of him" sounds like a threat to me and I think that will be enough for the police to go round and have word.
Have a policeman on your doorstep could be enough to make him think twice about acting this way.
Good Luck!! xx
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