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writes:last nite like i always do I rang my ex bf. we have been sleeping together for a few weeks, anyway he had his daughter stay over last nite and i no he doesnt go out when hes got her. anyway as he was board and so was i..anyway i rang him to see if he wanted to meet me he said no cuz of her and because we had it friday nite, anyway he said il phone u later, but since 9.45 ive heard nothing, im really scared hes not talking to me no,And im not sure if i should ring him or not or let him ring me first i dont want to sound desprett
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reader, petina1 +, writes (30 November 2008):
 If hes got his daughter over he will be busy with her. Maybe she had trouble sleeping or something and he was tending to her needs. You have to try and imagine yourself in his shoes sometimes, he sounds a great dad if he's willing to take responsibilty of his daughter. Give him his time to do that. If he hasn't rung at some point during the next day, then I would just simply ask the question, how's it going? Did your daughte have a nice visit? Something along those lines, then it doesnt sound as if you think there is a problem. Children can take up a lot of your time. If you are worried about anything else and you are not trusting him for some reason, then when his daughter has gone back home you need to talk about this with him and how you are feeling. I'ts early days in your relationship so sometimes it can be hard working on just that.
hope this helps.
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