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*wilight#1
writes:This guy I know from Theater club asked me out for dinner on Facebook. I was excited... (his roommate is the guy that I like) so he takes me to dinner and we talk about music mostly. J is really musically talented and asked me if I could sing, I said yes, then he rushed me through my dinner to bring me back to his suite so he can hear me sing. So I did. We go to his suite/dorm and I sing for him. He didn't comment on the way I sung... then again all I sung was "Kiss Me" from sixpence non the richer, which doesn't require a lot of vocal range so idk. ANYWAY soon later he tells me "I really need to figure out the cords to this song" HE SPENDS like 15 min on this song, not even paying attention to me... I'm like dude wtf? Then he shows me some of his music that he wrote for his x... and then he said he was anxious and didn't know why. This guy was known to be funny and relaxing... but he wasn't around me... we barely made conversation because he was so weird... the guy I liked came in and totally ignored me... which was a jackass thing to do, since we're friendly toward each other all I get is "keeping busy" from the guy I like... meaning to me 'don't really want to talk to you' After this horrible ... idk hang out... he doesn't call me or text me or NOTHING... when I did... Whats wrong here?
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reader, Twilight#1 +, writes (30 November 2008):
Twilight#1 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks katatonik. BUT the only thing is that the guy I like has a girlfriend... I forgot to mention that. A GIRLFRIEND in which he said he didn't have feelings for on aim.... so idk what's his problem... and as for that other guy he hasn't even called me back... so I don't think he was that interested... What do you think?
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reader, katatonik +, writes (30 November 2008):
 If I understand you correctly, you like one guy but accepted his roommate (Theater Guy)'s invitation to dinner. That would be where you screwed up. The guy you like saw you with Theater Guy and probably assumed the two of you were interested in each other (and it does sound like Theater Guy is interested in you, at least.) Any good friend would back off at that point, even if he did like you "in that way" himself. Hate to say it, but by appearing to be a love interest of this guy's friend/roommate you have probably put yourself in untouchable territory for some time to come, and there isn't too much you can do about it.
Theater Guy taking time to "figure out the chords" to a song in front of you was probably not an insult but rather him trying to subtly show off his musical talent to you, btw.
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