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writes: hi. i'm 18 this yearunlike many of you here, my problem doesnt lie with my partner.it's my first relationship and i am enjoying every moment of it when i'm with my boyfriend. i love my boyfriend and i know he loves me alot as well. but for some reason i cant help crying when he's not around.even if he;s like only 30min late from the time he promised to meet mei'm afraid that i might be.. mentally sick.does anyone know why i'm like this? i cant stand it anymore. it's making me a wreck. and i'm becoming the kind of girl friend i was afraid of becoming.the too clingy kind. i think that not meeting each other too often will be good, but i cant stand the fact of being away from him.. Reply to this Question
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reader, Twilight#1  +, writes (30 November 2008):
 This is overall natural for a first love. I don't think its a mental sickness, I just think you REALLY care and love him. You just might have really intense feelings and your body doesn't know how to handle BUT to cry it out. I was in a sort of situation like that, but the guy wasn't my boyfriend and I woke up with panic attacks almost every other morning because I MISSED him so much, if I didn't see him within a day or so... but it will past. Consider yourself one of the lucky ones ;) that you can be with the man you love. DON'T be clinging! Men really hate that... unless he himself is clingy....
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reader, petina1  +, writes (30 November 2008):
 Your first relationship, emotions all over the place, this is absolutely natural for you to be feeling like this. It will pass, try not to be too clingy or you could scare him off. If you both agree to be seeing each other a lot thats nice. When you are young and in love thats also a natural reaction. Try to keep active doing other things when you are not seeing him and that will calm your mind. Your not mentally sick, just 'love sick' and you are showing the symptoms. hope this helps.
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