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writes:I have a serious problem, its not like most problems posted here. I'm in love with a guy I hardly know. I think it is love at first sight. I know cheesy, but its true. I can never stop thinking about him. I miss him everyday I wake up. When I say 'hardly know' I don't mean that I'm a total stranger... I just never really hung out with him personally. But I do see and talk to him around the theater club and talk to him on aim. He's so nice, handsome, charming, considerate. But he is in a relationship with this girl that he said to me on aim "I don't know how I feel about her, I got use to distancing myself away from her, I don't have the same feelings anymore" SO WHY is he in this relationship! He infuriates me. There have been certain times when I hint at lunch BEFORE his relationship but he never called me even when he said he would. He breaks my heart everyday... Is this love or the idea of us both together? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2008): If you are hurting as much as your question suggests then i would try and distance yourself away from this guy for the immediate future. It is hard, i know, but perhaps he needs a little time to work out how he feels about his relationship. It is difficult to ascertain whether he is genuinely unsure about how he feels about his girlfriend, and perhaps he is trying to keep you simmering and close until he knows what he wants. Like a monkey, he will not let go of one thing (his girlfriend) unless he knows he can get to another (you) This is not a good thing to assure him off as you need to be sure that he is commited to you by him sort of putting himself out there on a limb. By no means end communication with him but keep it brief (and of the subject of his relationship) and i hope in time he will make the decision but at the same time this will assure him that you will not be hanging around waiting forever. Good Luck. Charlotte
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): i honstly think you should go for it .im not saying put ur life ono hold and focus only on him (he does have a girl) but i think you should try and make your feelins a lil more obvious . nd i think he will end up leave'n her for u
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reader, Teacake +, writes (30 November 2008):
 What you are experiencing is all fantasy. You have no idea what sort of person he really is other than what you imagine.
This is very common and all things about love are a mystery and no way to ever know anything even if the other person says they love you! LOL
Just enjoy having the attraction and if its meant to be he will cross your path in an unexpected way.
I've heard of boys and men who are in love with cartoon characters!!!!!!!!!!
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