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Archived questions from: September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

Dating: Help and advice

We are 14 and in love. I need some xmas present ideas please..

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are 14 and we love eachother (yeah, you'll probably think I am full of it, but it's real) Well. I know he is getting me a ring for Christmas that is worth about $300, and so I really don't have anything to get him. I just really ...

How can I get my girlfriend ready for sex?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4705 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Friends my gf is never ready for sex! please tell me what to do. How to make a girl ready for sex?? She never wants me to talk about sex and its very difficult to control... please help me out please!...

I'm 14 and in love with 2 women. What do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6260 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Im 14. I love my gf but my best mate fancies her and i fancy his gf but my gf would be heartbroken if i left her. I love 2 women, what do i do....

Legal in England for a 17 yr old girl to live with her bf, aged 21?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6216 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - HIYA, IS IT LEGAL IN ENGLAND FOR A 17 YEAR OLD GIRL TO LIVE WITH HER 21 YEAR OLD BOYFRIEND WITHOUT HER PARENTAL permission? [Note: caps off pls]...

I am in love with my best mates girlfriend. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6219 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Hekp me. I am in love with my best mates girlfriend but they have only been going out 2 weeks. She is a great person and i really fancy her. But this is my best mate who is a great guy and deserves her. I haven't told them. What do i do, what do i ...

Guys! I don't know what to say in bed - he wants me to talk dirty. Any tips?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6231 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I wanted to ask guys what do they like to hear a girl say in bed. My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him but I feel so shy and couldn't think of anything to say!! Help!!...

She is not over her ex yet, and is uncertain of starting a new relation but she flirts with me. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hey all... bit of a dilemma lol.. i am gay and i recently met a girl who is also gay. im 18 and she is 23, we got on really wel.. and i started to fall for her. One night i was out with friends and her friends and i told her best mate i liked thi...

I like him and don't know whether to stay away from him or get to know him a bit more...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (?) - right, im going to a party on saturday, well its at my house, a suprise for my mums friends daughters 16th. only it might kind of end up as a joint because another one of my mums friends has a son that turns 16 the day before. i really really like ...

Has anyone had a rebound, realized their ex was who they want, and got back with them and it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Anybody went into a rebound relationship and realized their ex was who they really wanted and gone back to them and had it work??...

He wants to meet up... For sex. What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I started seeing a guy back in January. He said that he was divorced and living alone. We talked every day and met up a few times but after I slept with him he then ditched me and said he couldn't get involved. He did try to stay in contact after ...

Shall I make a move?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i am in a long term relationship and it is in trouble. i have a passion for another person and from what i notice this other person seems to feel the same way about me. this person becomes animated when i am around but is notoriously sullen when i ...

Arguements around my sister and her boyfriend are causing a rift in our family. Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6256 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Im really sorry it is a long message but I need help. Im 12 and I know this site is for teens but still. My sister is 16 and she has a boyfriend. He is perfectly nice but on Myspace he has been posting affectionate comments to this other g...

Does he want me back or not??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hello everyone! i have a question that i need to ask and get off my chest so here it goes...I went out with this boy hes 15 im gonna be 14 in a few days so there wasnt an age gap n all that hard stuff. but anyways things were going really good at ...

She didn't reply to my text about meeting up. Is there something about me women don't like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - I asked a girl out on friday. We seemed to be getting on well so I asked for her number. I sent her a text to say when we should meet up and I haven't got a reply. I sent a second one to remind her who I am. I don't what I've done wrong, I was pol...

21, with a fear of intimacy. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - hi there. I am desparate for advice, please help if you can. I'm a 21 year old woman and I think I have a fear of intimacy. I have been with my wonderful boyfriend for 3 and a half years. I shy away from having sex with him as I feel it's a dirty ...

It seems like everyone has a partner except me... What's wrong with me??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2291 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - What is wrong with me? Or is it this stupid town? It seems like everyone has a partner. Even our cat has a boyfriend next door (granted she's a cat). All my friends are with someone, not just sex buddies, but like someone special. And don't get me...

I like him, but I'm fridged! Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I Really really really like this guy who is 2 years older than me. no1 noes about how much i love him nobody noes that i even like him!! we talk all the time, go out nearly every weekend But recently we have been gettin really really close. W...

Really?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6262 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - i know at some point in the beginning of a new relationship the kiss kiss can always be the hardest to come around! because either one of you is nervous or doesnt know how the other one likes it! or your not sure he wants to kiss you! i always...

I want her back, but it could destroy me. Do I gamble???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Do I gamble and try and get something back with my ex? For those of you who haven't bee keeping up. My girlfriend of 2 years split with me back in June, because she was going to University. We had endured a long distance relationship sin...

I loved him, but he's moved on. How can I deal with this?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5850 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone I am heartbroken at the moment, the boy that i loved has moved on and found someone else i dont know how to deal with it. We broke up a while ago but i always believed deep down that we'd find our way back to each other.I think its my ...

I don't want to see moverly keen with my new interest. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Hi I recently met a guy who is 27. I am 19. He asked for my number. However, his first texts were him being angry because I had gone off with his mate that night and he was telling me how I should have been more respectful towards him because his ...

Can a relationship with someone who values their friends over their girlfriend, really work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I have a friend who Im interested in being more with him, and im pretty sure he likes me back, however Im not sure if it would be a good idea because he has this attitude/beleief that friends always come before girls, so 'bros before hoes' type of ...

People tell me that I am beautiful, smart, have a shining personality, but guys never want to date me because of my weight? Why don't guys date big girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I am 20 years old. I have had one serious relationship and a few boyfriends. I think it has been because I am overweight. I never thought it mattered. I love myself and i have more confidence than most people. People tell me that I am beautiful, ...

Is my interest Gay?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - Recently I have met a guy who was friends with my cousin and his girlfriend. Anyway, we all hung out one night and me and this guy totally hit it off. This was a few weeks ago and i have not hung out with him since. We did have a real good time and ...

In my relationship, I miss my family and friends who live a long way away. It's affecting our relationship.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - HI I have a wierd guestion ... Don't know where to start. Me and my BF have a great relationship .. I know that he loves me and I love him. He is year younger ... has his whole family here in NY, his friends, job .. his whole entire life ......

He likes motorcycles and the biker girls who hang out with bikers. I am afraid I might lose him! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - I have been with the guy I love since the first night I ever hung out with him. We started dating that night and 4 months later, we got engaged. Now, we are 6 months into the relationship. It happened fast, i know, but oh well. He bought one of them ...

She's doing me and her bf, at the same time..should I just walk?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

30 September 2007 (M) - Maybe need a lil help. Been having an affair wiv a girl whos a complete bitch but adorable at times too. Shes stayin wiv her security (boyf) but says she met him first but is still f**king me? She feels so guilty i know but caves in for me but at ...

He presumes I'm cheating but has allowed himself to be hugged in public by his ex.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

30 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend pressumes im cheating, there is no truth whatsoever in these allegations,yet he allowed himself to receive a hug in public from his ex girlfriend and feels it was ok ...

The ex bf or the new guy? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I have an enormous dilemma! Here's the background: I have been with the same guy on and off for just over 2 and a half years. For a long time I have wanted nothing but to be married to him and build a family together. After 11 months of dating he ...

It kills me that I might lose her to another guy..how do I cope?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I was dating a girl for 3 years, from my sophomore to senior year in highschool. She was my first "real" girlfriend, and i was her frist everything pretty much. There were a lot of times through our relationship that I didn't feel like it was ...

Will his girlfriends think I'm immature?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in an age gap relationship. I am 18, and my boyfriend is in his 20s. Everything is wonderful so far, we've been dating for about 7 months. I've met his family, he's met mine, he's met my friends, everyone gets along, wo...

His ex is putting him in debt and I don't like that. Should I stick this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Me (in my thirties) and my boyfriend (in his forties) entered into our relationship over three years ago, though we were friends for a few years previous. Before we were together, we were both involved in relationships where we financially supported ...

It was a week after her period, could she still get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5700 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - My girlfriend and I had unprotected sex last night. Is it possible that she could get pregnant even though it was almost a week after her period?...

I can talk with any guy, unless he is my crush; then I become shy. Advice, anyone?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6257 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I like this guy... but.. I barely talk to him. I feel sooo shy when I am in his presence. I'm like, "WTF is wrong with me?" I basically can talk to any guy, unless he is my crush. I think he likes me back, because he is also shy around me. Once...

They broke up a year ago, he's still not over her, should I give up or stick with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I have been seeing a wonderfull good man for 5 months now. He is not over his ex. He spent 15 years with her, she was his only other girlfriend other than myself. They have been apart over a year. They have no contact with each other. The ...

I think he is falling out of love with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for a year now and we do love eachother but i think he is starting to fall out of love with me how can i get things back to normal?...

Will she ever leave her husband for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4800 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I met a beautiful married woman 5 years ago in a restaurant on a Saturday. She was from a neighboring state. We talked and clicked. She was perfect - we fell in love. She has an a**hole for a husband. We stayed in touch and she visits when she...

We nearly kiss, then he texts me to tell me the rumours of having been intimate with a third person aren't true. Does he like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I Really Like This Guy Who Is 2 Years Older Than Me I Went To His Party The Other Day And Got Really Close, We Nearly Kissed Then I got a text sayin that he had fingered this girl, but this girl is a lyer and she lies to make herself sound good....

Is it fair that he will be leaving me on my own for a month every year?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I moved out to new york to live in new york where he is from and where his business is out of. But now he is going back to colorado every january for a month to rent his houses (his other business). Im basically out of luck because i don't have my ...

Why does being good looking make you so miserable?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - this is going to sound unbelievably arrogant but i assure you this is a genuine problem i have and i am genuinely asking for advice because it is really hard and upsetting me. i think i am too good looking. i know i am attractive, and guys ask for ...

I don't know what's going on at the moment.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi - my boyfriend has emigrated to Australia (since May) and although he wants me to join him he is currently texting me at 3am, 4am (his time) from bars at least once or twice a week. I have asked him whether he would like it if I went out ...

Should I run a mile, or give him another chance?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hello everyone, need a little advice here as I'm not sure what to do. Split up from my ex about ten months ago and friends suggested going on a dating site.. Anyway I've had a lot of fun chatting to men, but some are just downright disrespectful and ...

Is he just scared of getting hurt again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i have been talking to a guy for two years now and we got on from the start,i really like him and have done since i first started talking to him.he says we have a special friendship as we have been intimate over the phone and i have told him i ...

I'm in love with someone who makes me so happy... yet, so miserable as well. What do you think?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6267 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - I need serious advice on how to handle this. I am in love with someone who makes me so happy yet so miserable at the same time. I lovemy girlfriend. Infact she is everything I could ever want right now. Problem is she fucked things up at the...

A colleague fancies me, but he knows I love my partner with all my heart, so as a result, he wants to quit his job! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - i am 24 and in a happy relationship with my partner to with im engaged to i work at asda and i have friend called mike we are good mate and have been there for each other at our time of need but resantly i have resived text messages frome him sayin ...

I have a crush on my Music Producer. Is it worth pursuing him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - I am a small-time musician and I have a seriously intense crush on my producer, who is in a (very) long distance relationship. He's 31 and I'm 19. Are there too many reasons not to pursue him, or should I just go for it? He sends obvious vibes ...

I'm troubled by something my girlfriend did in the past...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6259 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Me and my gf have been in our relationship for almost three years... i'm aware that in almost every relationship the past comes up. The thing is, my past doesn't bug her as much as hers does me... We both had boyfriends in our pasts but she told me ...

Is it wrong to have the "all or nothing" mentality?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6268 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Is it wrong to have the "all or nothing" mentality? Must we remain friends? Is it ok if you have no interest in being a friend to a woman who (place excuse here) and just wants to be friends. We have been close friends for 2 years and now th...

Does anyone else think this guy is taking things too fast?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6269 days ago

29 September 2007 (F) - Hi! Sorry...this may be a bit long but I just want to give everybody a bit of bakground info :) I met this amazing guy over the summer. Let me start by stating that I’m 24 and he’s 22, so this isn’t some high school summer love. He was just pass...

I've met a beautiful new girl... But conversation seems a little arkward! What do you think?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6234 days ago

29 September 2007 (M) - Confused about a girl. Ok we'll theres this girl I saw today in my gym class and as soon as I saw her I was like OMG, she was like the prettiest girl I have ever seen. I am very into vampires, and lets just say she looked like a slightly darker ...