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Archived questions from: 4 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

After asking me out he told others he didn't have a girlfriend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I wanted to go out with this guy for a long time and I thought he was so perfect for me. He finally asked me out and I was so excited, but a couple days after I agreed to say "yes", he told all of his friends he didn't have a girlfriend. How can I ...

I don't want another case of the "Inlaws from hell!" What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6291 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for 4 years and this past Febuary he asked me to marry him. The problem is that I'm not sure if I want to be with him anymore. I have been married before and had the "INLAWS FROM HELL" my fear is that his family will be ...

How do I know if my friend likes me, and how do I confront her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6288 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - hey all, i recently have become very attracted to a woman. ive known of her for about 6 months, but over the past 3 weeks or so i have gotten to know her. i saw her on a friday night and things seemed good, she put her arm around me when showing ...

I thought she liked me, but now she is ignoring me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6288 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I think I'm being screwed over, but she won't tell me. Hi, I've been friends with this girl for a few months now, and it started to become more than a friendship, though nothing has happened yet. She liked me originally, but I couldn't be wi...

I met a guy on line. He called loads and we met up but now I haven't heard from him. Should I try and call him again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6287 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I met a guy online - -he kept emailing me, I replied then he asked me to call, I said I prefer to be called he called and texct me, we met then he test me and called me everyday. Then he just stopped I calle dhim and he is yet to respond....I really ...

She wants some time out but I need to know where I stand. How do I ask her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Me and the girl I've been dating recently decided to take some time off, and while it was more for her sake than mine, I couldn't help but agree that it was necessary. She's a girl who's never really been alone, and she believes she needs to make ...

My mum's assistant manager likes me, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Well, I need help, yet again lol. Well, my mum's assistant manager likes me, he's 23 and I'm 18 and I'm thinking, is he too old for me? I know he likes me as everytime I see him, he always says hi to me, and he always looks deep in to my eyes, and ...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Hi all, Okay, here's the deal. My ex and I of 5 years broke up 3 mos ago. About 5 weeks ago, she sent me an e-mail saying "change is hard" and "we need to start fresh in all aspects" and "i hope you agree and understand"...this was in response ...

I have a crush on my friend, but our relationship is not moving further

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - ive got a friend but i told him ive got a crush on him. he said hes got a crush on me, but our relationship is not moving further....

My friend has asked me not to go see my holiday romance as she thinks I don't know him well enough and thinks I'm putting myself in a dangerous position...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I met a lovely guy when i went on holiday. I didnt really get to know him that well till towards the end of the holiday. We have since been txting a lot. He was a barman when i met him but he now HAS to serve his time in the army. He wants me to go ...

My boyfriend doesnt buy me presents and ignores important occasions

This question has 107 answers - newest was posted 3124 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Ok, in terms of problems this maybe isnt huge but it is playing on my mind a bit. i have been with my boyfreind for 2 years now...and he just doesnt treat me with the same care and attention he used to. Yesterday was my 23rd birthday....and i got ...

My boyfriend calls me nasty names and expects me to do all the household chores

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I love my bf vry much but he disrespects me by calling me names like bit** and then expects me to do all the chores in the apt just because I don't have a job yet. i've just started to attend languages classes because the language is a barrrier from ...

We plan on being together in the future, but I want her now, too!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

4 September 2007 (?) - My girlfriend and I are in a distance relationships, different colleges. Been together for 5 months. Been having some difficulties lately with school starting up again and not knowing when we are going to see each other next. Also, she is busy b/c ...

Why would my ex call me for love advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hello All, My ex byfriend, also the father of my son, recently called me to get advice. He claims he could not think of anyone else to call. He tells me he is leaving the current girlfriend for a new prospect he recently meet. But the weird th...

I cheated on my boyfriend and its eating me alive!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I kissed someone else as a result a baddd judgment moment and 2 many drinks (wich is no excuse), and it’s eating me alive, a love my boyfriend very much and don’t want to hurt him, but I don’t know if I should tell him, and don´t know what to do, I ...

I am in love with an 18 yr old girl from a different religion than mine

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6272 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - People I need your help, I am 25 yrs of age in love with this 18-yr old girl, we met on a chatline, transferred on to MSN, and then met eventually, she had numerous numerous guys clammering for her, on phone, chatline and wherever, but she says she ...

I want to spend my life with him, but I need to be able to trust him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - wen i first started to date my bf i was warned about him and people would say that he's no good, but i liked him so much i carried on going out with him but it always played in the back of my mind. i got told that he was interested in this girl and ...

My girlfriends daughter thinks I am just using her for sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - im a male and have just started dating a woman 7 years older than me but her eldest daughter is worried that im just using her for sex which is not the case how can i prove to the daughter that this is not so ...

I just started a long distance relationship. How can I make this work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I've just started a long distance relationship and i'm already finding it really hard. He lives about 4 hours away on the train, and seeing as im still at school, I'm finding it dificult to find the money to go and see him. I really want it to work ...

My boyfriend makes me so mad that I hit him. I know this is wrong but cant seem to control myself!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5405 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I really need some help with me and my BF's relationship. We have been together for 1 year and things have started getting a little violent. When I say that I mean that he will say something to me that will hurt my feelings and make me cry and all I ...

Why does he say such mean things to me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6207 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hi, there evryone, i was wounding if anybody could tell me why my boyfriend thinks it ok to call me stupid and tell me to shut up all i have to do is say something like why dont you cuddle me anymore and he will tell me to shut up. i get very upset. ...

I think my boyfriend has a wife back in Haiti!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - my boyfriend and i have been together 3 year. i am american and he is haitian. recently, he went to haiti. when he got there he gave me a number to call him. We communicated back and forth for a few days. On one day near to his return i call the ...

How could I meet guys? I am at a single sex school and there arent any clubs.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6045 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hey Dearcupid, i am 14 and i know people will say i am too young and have the rest of my life ahead but no one thinks that way at my age. I am at the age where a lot of my year are starting to get boyfriends, me on the otherhand not. I am really...

I'm 15 and never had a boyfriend. I feel there is nothing appealing about my personality. Could anyone advise me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Hey! I'm 15 years old and I have never had a proper boyfriend. I'm not bad looking but I don't feel I have much personality. I know guys would rather girls with a big personality and I feel insecure and that I'll never have a boyfriend becaus...

I was date raped a few years ago. I have a date soon and dont know when the right time should be to tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I have an awkward question, I was hoping somebody might be able to offer some advice. I'm 24 right now, but when I was 17 I was date-raped. It affected me for years, and I had major self-esteem issues and trust issues. Now though, I've 'found ...

Is it true that people that only go out with good looking people get hurt eventually?

This question has 26 answers - newest was posted 6282 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - Is it true that people who only go out with good looking get hurt eventually, than the people who choose personality over looks?...

Now we are back together he never says he loves me!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6291 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend dumped me and now we are back together but he never says he loves me and if i say it he tells me i dont mean it and that he doesnt believe me. We have been together for 11 months and i do love him :(. what do i do?...

What seperates loving somebody and being in love with them??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Ok, so i have been dating my bf for a little over 10 months now, not to mention 2 years before breaking up for a year. I know i love him but i am confused to whether i am 'in love with him'. I dont love him as just a friend because he means so much ...

He never goes out and is possesive!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I have meet a man online whom his business requires him to work at home and always in the computer monitoring it daily. We been together for half a year now and we get along very well and fallen really deeply in love. The thing is I find it bit ...

She's one of my younger brother's friends, and I spend time with them rather than my peers. Opinions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - I just turned 24 and just graduated college and my brother is 18 so I hang out with his friends all the time, more than friends my own age - and I have a better time with them. One of them likes me, but she is 17 (she might be 16 actually, but ...

Where do I fit into his life?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6295 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - I've been dating this guy that I met at work for 6 weeks now and things are going great. We click on every level and have even talked about living together and possibly marriage. My problem is this, we make plans and then he sometimes doesn't follow ...

I have a crush on a shy guy. How should I tell him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

4 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, Recently, I've developed a crush on my good friend Kat's older brother, Jay. For those of you who may ask, yes, I have already talked to Kat about my feelings for Jay. That was the first thing I did. I've heard about people getting a...

My girlfriends boss is flirting with her and sending her innapropriate texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6295 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new ...

My parents are blaming my bisexuallity on my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

4 September 2007 (M) - hey.... ive recently just told my parents i am bisexual, and that i have a boy friend. and i think it is best to say all was n ot taken very well!! im 16 and live in the uk, my b/f is 15 buh turns 16 in february, i no the age of consent over her...