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writes:i am in a long term relationship and it is in trouble. i have a passion for another person and from what i notice this other person seems to feel the same way about me. this person becomes animated when i am around but is notoriously sullen when i am not there. I am complimented a lot by this person, in a non sexual way. whenever i look up to see where this person is, this person is looking at me. this persons partner gets annoyed when we are in the same vicinity the partner i think has noticed what i have noticed. people in the same social circle have noticed that this person becomes more animated and sociable whenever i am around. at the last social gathering there were six of us sat around the same table and this person never broke eye contact with me. speaking directly to me all evening. shall i make a move? Reply to this Question
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reader, kenny +, writes (30 September 2007):
 It would appear that you and this other guy are crushing on each other enormously and share a huge passion for one another. Currently you both have partners at present so the correct thing to do would for you both to terminate you present relationships before persuing this new guy. Before you do this make sure that you are 100% sure its what you want. You don't want to finish your long term relationship to find out that this new guy is not what you thought. Like Uncle Phil says living with someone is a different thing to fancying them over the dinner table.
Just sit back and have a think because its a big step to take.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): no way .think about his partner . if he wants to make a move on tou then he should end it with his current partner first
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): You've both got partners who would be hurt by any infidelity.
The obvious answer to the question is that you should both separate from your respective partners before embarking on any relationship with each other.
Be careful though - livng with someone is a whole lot different to fancying them over the dinner table, as you don't get to see their annoying habits when they're on their best behaviour.
Think carefully before 'making a move'. All hell could break loose, and it probably would, resulting in misery all round.
Phil
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