New here? Register in under one minute Already a member? Login

245057 questions, 1084625 answers

Got a relationship, dating, love or sex question? Ask for help!

New Questions Answers . Most Discussed Viewed . Unanswered . Followups . Forums . Top agony aunts . About Us . Articles . Sitemap

To browse questions by day in September, 2007, use the links below (in brackets, number of questions on that day in this category)

1 (14), 2 (9), 3 (28), 4 (34), 5 (28), 6 (31), 7 (44), 8 (22), 9 (27), 10 (24),
11 (35), 12 (10), 13 (23), 14 (15), 15 (27), 16 (16), 17 (22), 18 (21), 19 (19), 20 (28),
21 (20), 22 (23), 23 (32), 24 (23), 25 (17), 26 (42), 27 (34), 28 (26), 29 (26), 30 (28),

Archived questions from: 6 September, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

(More questions from September, 2007)

Dating: Help and advice

Does she like me or my mates???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I'm going out with a girl who's really confusing. She told me after 2 weeks of going out that she likes one of my best friends but still loves me so I was like okay we will still go out. But it's just weird because if my mates meet her or what...

I keep crying because I have really really low self esteem and I just feel really ugly and rejected and basically a mess.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I'm really confused right now. I started a job 3 months ago and met this guy called Dan through one of the people at work. We became friends and about a month ago he kissed me and told me he liked me. I was a bit unsure at first because he's a bit ...

He's never cheated on me but when he left his phone at my house there were texts on it from another girl!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - hi... I've been with my boyfriend for a while now. He tells me he has never cheated on any of his ex's, and I believe him. Recently I've been on holiday for 3 weeks, when I got back he told me he'd really missed me and been so bored while I was ...

Am I doing the right thing, am I being unreasonalbe? I gave him 100% of me and I know in my gut I'm only getting 50% back.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I came out of an engagement last year, it was a 6 year relationship and ended with me kissing someone else and realising that I wasnt getting what I wanted from my fiance. It hurt considerably to break it off. There was a lot of security involved, ...

I crave attention from him, our sex life hasn't always been great and I've had to come on to him if I want to make love, this is now adding to my fear of him being gay even though he swears he is straight.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I'm so confused and I'm at the end of my tether, my partner of 4 years is a cross dresser, he lied about it for a good year then told me, I told him to prove it as I thought it was his way of trying to finish the relationship, so I dug out a pair of ...

Am I supposed to wait while he gets over his committment issues? And if he does decide he wants to commit, how will I forgive him for lying? How can he earn my trust back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been lying to me about where he has been going out, does that mean he's cheating too? How do I get passed the lies and trust him again? My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. I'm 31, he's 28. I recently found o...

Should I just take a break with him and focus on my life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Should I break up with him? I really love him and he loves me we have been going out for 8 months now. I'm just not into anything sexual or anything like that, I like him more as a companion right now. It is also probably becuase I am a big ...

Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the course of our relationship.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6288 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hi all, please help. My boyfriend and I have been together 2 years. We own a home together, have a 1 month old son, and I have a 4 year old daughter who he treats as his own. Last week he confronted me on some things that I've lied about during the ...

I know if I admit to having an affair he will go beserk as he gets very upset if I only just mention an ex's name in our conversation.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I have been with my bf for 9 months. He's a lot younger than me (he's 22 and I'm 32), and he says this is the best relationship he's had, he loves me very much and almost puts me on a pedestal. I love him very much and feel the same, he's kin...

She started a new job 10 months ago and I know her new boss is flirting with her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - So my girlfriend and I have been together for 4 years and things for the most part seem to be going great. I even bought a ring a few months ago with the intent to propose on our anniversary now 1 month away. Here's the problem. She started a new ...

She hasn't told me she loves me since then, and things don't feel completely right. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been going out with a girl I was kinda "more than friends" with for years. In the last few weeks I asked her out and she said yes. We're just teens, both 16, and we've kissed and it was great. When we kissed I told her I love her, which ...

I am so in love with two differant girls. Neither is interested, but they are both so perfect in differant ways.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - Hi there! I won't name the girls I'm in-love with so I'll only put the first letter of their names. I have so much in common with E, me and her always have endless conversations for hours together but she cheats, lies and betrays so I don't trust ...

Why doesn't he send me any messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - why does guy who flirts, always smiles to me, is happy when i'm around and have some feelings to me doesn't sent me any messages?...

Why can I never orgasm during sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6227 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have just recently started having sex. He's the first person I've slept with, so the experience is still kinda new to me. I enjoy having sex with him and he's very sweet and loving the whole time and really tries to please me. I ...

We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6291 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Dear Cupid, My partner and I have lived together for 3 years and have a 16 month old baby together. We own our home together but the problem is I want to get married and he doesn't. He has 3 other children all in their twenties now. What would ...

I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I just want to know why my girlfriend doesn't know when she reaches climax, she always say "I don't know if I'm done or not" That makes me crazy. What is this and what can I do to make her feel that sweet thing?...

Is it possible for him to change???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and for the past 2 things were very rocky. He was never physically abusive but he was verbally. He would belittle me in any way possible and it was as if he never saw anything wrong with the way he ...

Just before he's ready to "cum" he pulls out and finishes up himself. Why???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6119 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I need a mans word on this. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 3 years. We have sex about 5 times a week and great sex, but just before he's ready to "cum" pardon the language, he pulls out and finishes up himself. We talked about ...

Help! My best friend and I like the same girl...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5789 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - My best friend and I like the same girl! I need your help please! I can't tell if she likes me or not. She seems to. My best friend has been trying to go out with her for three months now and from what I can gather, he isn't getting very far. ...

I can't let my feelings go for my ex...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I recently got back together with one of my friends that I really like and I told myself I wasn't going to screw it up with her this time but as I waited in the counselors office to my school (waiting to ask about class change) my ex, who I still ...

He planned to cheat and got caught (that is my fear). He can't believe it is such a big deal to me, but I'm embarrassed, shocked and hurt...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hi, my boyfriend is from a very different culture to me. He hid the fact he had a girlfriend when we met, I left when I found out. He broke up with her and said he will try to avoid her, he doesn't, she was even at his place once when I went there ...

How do we bring the spark back into our relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6290 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of over a year just recently told me that he doesn't feel anything when we kiss anymore. However, he doesn't want to break up with me. We're best friends, I'm crazy about him, and we love each other deeply. Neither of us can see ...

I don't get aroused. Any ideas about what might be going on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (?) - This is a bit embarrassing... but I don't know why this happens. Okay I've been with my boyfriend for a year, this is my first boyfriend. I used to get so turned on even when he just kissed me, there was a lot of lubrication and all. Now, it's so ...

But what does strawberry flavored lubricant mean?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5913 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have trouble having sex. He can't fit inside me. Some of my friends tell me to use lubricant. At the drugstore, I saw a whole bunch of kinds. I bought a strawberry flavored one because it smells goo. But what does strawberry ...

Is it common for people to stay in touch with their ex's like this? Should I stop being a fool and do something about it?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6281 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much but I am so afraid he is going to leave me. He and his ex have a very messy past and I know he talks to her all the time. I try not to let it bother me, but it really does. I don't understand why he needs to talk ...

I love her soo much, she's funny, gorgeous, intelligent, and soo much more and don't want to lose her but really need to figure our problems out because I don't know how much more I can take.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 14 months. I love her soo much but it seems that as soon as things get really good she finds a reason to get confused about me. Last Friday she phoned me in the morning and woke me up which is fine. She wanted to ...

Why do some men show extra affection to their girlfriend in front of other women?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6292 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Why do some men show extra affection to their girlfriend in front of other women? This happens to me sometimes in public places, like the grocery store. It is like these men are showing off. As if I am going to be jealous, or impressed. I could ...

I don't know if he's cheating on me, he says he loves me... what do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6293 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Hello, I have been with my partner a year and half. We use to get on really well till October last year his dad went down ill and everything changed between us, we never have sex, he is always strange with me. Then his mum and dad died this year and ...

It's like pulling teeth just to get my boyfriend to put his arm around me. What is going on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6284 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for nearly two years now. I am a year older than him, but we are both teenagers, and are seniors in high school. The first year of our relationship was wonderful, and then, for some reason, after we hit our ...

Because I would have ovulated and even if I am not pregnant is it safe to carry on having unprotected sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6293 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Ok well a long story short I came off the pill [that I was on for about 2 years] to start using comdoms with my boyfriend [who I've been with for over 2 years]. But the problem is we keep having unprotected sex because we are still in the habit of ...

My boyfriend's mother hates me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

6 September 2007 (F) - Boyfriend's Mother HATES ME I suspected my boyfriend's mother hated me when she repeatedly sang praises about his ex-girlfriend (two girlfriends ago) and how much the whole family loved her. It was confirmed when she began calling me NOT by my act...