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female
age
30-35,
*atalie-ann
writes:hey all... bit of a dilemma lol.. i am gay and i recently met a girl who is also gay. im 18 and she is 23, we got on really wel.. and i started to fall for her. One night i was out with friends and her friends and i told her best mate i liked this girl. well its obvious it got back to her. my best friend said that she flirts with me a lot using body language.. i cant see body language at all. so a week later my mate went up to her and asked her if she liked me ( i know i was actually unaware of this) her answer was " to be honest with you _____, im not over my ex yet and nats a great girl, i wouldnt want to do that knowing im not over my ex... then my friend asked her if there wil be anything in the future and she said "i dont know." she still flirts with me well did up until friday.. her ex came out and upset her, id had loads to drink bare in mind ( i know its not an excuse) i said to her that ill knock out her ex ! thats bad becuase i know she isnt over her ex.. but nothing was mentioned afterwards. she knows im not a violent person, wel i hope she does...in fact i hate it am probably one off the biggest wimps ever lol, i was wrong and i shouldnt have got invovled.. i dont even know her ex.. neva seen her in the club. i text her the next day apoligising for bein a t**t but she didnt text me back. i saw her that night and i apoligised to her, she said its ok but i dont beleive it is. I feel like an idiot.. this woman is amazing, she lacks confidence i dnt know why but shes amazing,, i have fallen for her and i dont know what i should do here are the questions:what should i do? i like her i think of her all day everyday...its driving me crazy and to be honest since friday ive been really low i hate the thought of it not being the same as before.why do i have such strong feelings for someone in a short period of time?if you guys dont think she likes me or there is nothing there how do i get her out my mind?im sorry this is long thanks for your help xXx
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reader, Tommy7  +, writes (1 October 2007):
Try to win her just for a temporary fling. Don't expect much and you won't be dissappointed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007): As she says, she's not over her ex yet. But she will be one day. You've registered your interest in no uncertain terms and she'll be in no doubt you'd be up for it if given the go-ahead.
Patience - if she wants to start afresh with you I'm sure she'll let you know, but don't waste any time waiting - it might be a long time, if ever, so get out there and enjoy life while you can.
Phil
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