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Archived questions from: 4 October, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

How do I not ruin first dates?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - I am quite a shy person so at 20 i have just started dating. i had a date on tuesday with a girl who i seemed to like but i have probably cocked it up as there was at times long periods of silence (like 1 minute at one point). She had to go early as ...

Should I revert it, instead of telling him I like him, say I heard he likes me and ask if it's true? Boys, which strategy would you prefer?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

4 October 2007 (?) - ummm okay i have a party this weekend and im planning to tell the guy i like that i like him. should i reverse it? say that ppl have been saying that he likes me and i want to know? or should i just blurt i like u do u like me? boys? which one would ...

My girlfriend says I am moving too fast

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - my girlfriend said im moving to fast and i just got with her recently what can i say to her by text to make her feel that i want her in a soft way?...

I am engaged but recently hooked up with another guy - my former teacher!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6102 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Okay, first of all I know I've been stupid but I really need advice! I'm 20 and left school about 3 years ago and during my last two years I developed a huge crush on one of the teachers. I am now engaged to a different guy but about two weeks ag...

He looks and acts younger and we get on well despite of the 17 yrs age gap, but how do I tell my parents about him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Needing some advice here!! for the last 2 years i have been seeing my boyfriend, i am 18 he is 35, so obviously i was 16 when i met him. The problem is, how do i tell my parents???? i am not really close to them, and i have briefly discussed what ...

He wanted a baby with his ex-wife... Why doesn't he want one with me???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6251 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Im 19, I moved out of my parents and I now live with my boyfriend who is 37. I know there’s an age difference but it works for us. Iv dated my boyfriend for a year and a half but iv known him for over 2 years. I feel that the time is right for us ...

How do you win back someone you've dumped?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Just a quick question, has anyone reading this ever dumped anyone and realised they have made a mistake? And how did you win the person back? ...

I have fantasies about my husband... with other women. Why is this a turn on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Ever since i met my husband i have fantasies about him being with other women. I know im his wife and not at all afraid of him leaving me for his other partners. I just want him to get all his fantasies answered. It really turns me on. I am shy ...

Help! My boyfriend has a crush on my best friend!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5841 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I recently found notes on facebook between my boyfriend of eight months and my best friend about how he had developed a crush on her and thinks shes the prettiest girl he knows. He says it was just a week that he had a crush on her and doesn't mean ...

I'm madly in love with her, but now she's dating her crush! Do I tell her how I feel?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - Hey people, yesterday, the girl with whom i am madly in love (we'll call her Jane) got asked out by her crush, and she said yes. Naturally, this saddens me, but I just dont know what to do... I have been told my numerous friends that I should tell ...

Should I worry about his past? I'm worried his ex was better in bed and also that he may cheat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I am in a rship with a perfect man (sweet, honest, goodlooking, great in bed, etc ec). We've been together for almost 4 years now... we are both young, in our second year of university, but we started dating in high school when we were 16. Over t...

How do I weed out the bad guys from the good so I don't waist my time?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I've recently started dating again after being in a 5yr relationship. What I've noticed though that it gets a lot harder as you get older. Also there are a lot of guys out there who just want sex. I get really angry after the effort I've made in ...

His sexual past is really bothering me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Im in a new relationship with someone and Im really confused about what to do. I find myself feeling really weird and jealous when I think about the fact he's had 5 sexual partners before. I really dont want to feel like this, but I don't know how...

She broke up with me because of the distance, but now I might be moving there next year

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - Hi everyone. Something has happened. My hope in life is to achieve some kind of profession in Music as a performer. A few months ago, my 2 year long relationship with a girl who lived 200+ miles away broke up with me, after she was moving to Un...

I like a guy but don't know if I should tell him so

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Hi, i like this guy and i dont want to ask him if he likes me but he's mean to me he was nice to me for some years but then in Year 5 and 6 he kept being mean to me,(ignored me, wouldn't belive something i said which was true)He did look at me ...

My boyfriend cheated and confessed and is trying to win me back

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5594 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half, who I was supposed to marry, recently told me that he got drunk one night and cheated. Well, I consider it cheating. A girl friend of his called and said she had nowhere to stay, so he told her she could stay at ...

How should I act on my first date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - iam new to being gay and i am hoping to meet my first possible boyfriend in sutton in surrey on saturday how should i act on the day and should i ask about a second date from craig, 22years old gay redhill...

His ex wont leave him alone

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5152 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend just under a year. His ex is like a thorn in my side - she won't go away! Every time she crops up, it causes conflict in our relationship. We'll forget about her, then the next thing youknow she's textigm or c...

I cant get her past out of my head, but I need to so that we can have a life together

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5451 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - My girlfriend of almost two years, “Sara”, just asked me to marry her. She is a realist. And for a women like “Sara” to have reached a point in her life where she would even consider marriage again (as she was briefly married to her high school ...

He is a compulsive lier and cheater.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6242 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - We just started dating about 3 months ago but feel like EVER cause we live together basically in the barracks, and I have already caught him in mulitiple lies and oh i cant forget i even caught him across the hall in another girls room in the ...

I have kept in touch with my ex while out of the county. Should I call him when I get back in town?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6255 days ago

4 October 2007 (?) - I went out with a nice guy 3 times, knowing I was about to leave the country for work. He knew, too, and it wasn't a problem. While away during these past 8 months we've exchanged brief emails every so often to stay up to date. Although he's gone ...

I love my best friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - ok I love my best friend we have sex regularly, spend most of our time together and flirt all the time, but he says he just doesnt feel the same as i do. does anyone have any suggestions on how ican stop loving him, i just cant help it ...

The guy I like, and who likes me too, is dating my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6263 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - I've recently told a guy i like him, i thought he'd freak but its all good. Now he feels the same but hes going out with a friend of mine, should i wait till they're over or tell her or just keep going the way is it. Ive never been so happy and ...

The guy I like just told me he is joining the army

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6253 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Theres this guy i like we have kinda been dating and are planning on getting together. However things have already been quite complicated and now he just sprung on me that he is joining the army. i always told myself i'd never go out with a guy in ...

Should I give this guy a chance? Or does he have too much baggage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6244 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I met a guy through dating website. 3 weeks ago... I'm 40, divorced 5yrs with 2 children, only had 1 other partner for a couple of years which ended earlier this year. 1st 2 dates were fab and very intense. He has 2 ex's with 3 children betwe...

Am I to blame for messing up our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - i have a boyfriend. he is older than me for about 7 years. at first our relationship is so good. but the dilemna came when the time that my x-bf texted me and he's the one who receives it. he asked me who is he and because i get nervous, i lied to ...

My boyfriend abuses me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - ok my boyfriend has a problem he's constantly physical with me. actually he hasn't been recently, but in the past he's severely injured me. well injured me enough to where even weeks and weeks had passed i still had marks and my skin where i've had ...

My boyfriend ignores my feelings, but when I try to break up he tells me he loves me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6245 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - hi..i just want to ask, why is my bf always ignoring my emotional feelings especially when he dont answers my call and messages..when i would try to break up with him he would just say he love me and my heart always listen to him....

What can I do to show her I love her and need to marry her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - My Fiancee and i are Christian. Bible say having sex before marriage is a Sin. What can i do to her so that she can know that i really love and care and need to marry her. Can we spent tog' without having sex or can i kiss her deeply.Please advice....

I kinda blew my proposal to my fiance... she's spoiled so it's hard to "un-disappoint" her

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - I sort of blew my proposal to my now fiancee and needless to say she is very disappointed. I know the proposal is a big deal, but I still choked and am going to be stuck with that forever. I want to make it up to her, but I'm not sure how. The ...

Was he just being nice to me, or is he interested in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6249 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - Please help...I'm very confused. There is this guy that I am interested alot. He is what I would call the perfect man. He may have some flaws but they are tiny. We used to go to school together but never really saw each other. Resently one of ...

I cant make an equal finacial contribution and its affecting our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - How to show him i simply cannot afford all those things? Okay dear aunts ~ here is my problem and dillema:Im dating a guy who is quite well-off. Im still at the university,and have little savings so i cannot afford even things for me. The problem ...

My boyfriend and I are talking about marriage, but I have a huge crush on a guy at work

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6264 days ago

4 October 2007 (F) - HELP! My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over a year, but have known each other for about 7 years. We love each other very much! We live together and want to get married and have children together too. I also know that he already ...

I lied to my girlfriend about my age. How can I tell her the truth without losing her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - what has age difference got to do with marrage? i am a man at 24, but all through my life i have been making friends with people who are older than i am, and now i want to get married, and the girl i have fallen in love with is five years older th...

I want to divorce my wife and marry her sister

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4971 days ago

4 October 2007 (M) - i had a chance to be with and tell my wife's sister that i am in love with her, but didn't. know i feel depressed and feel i've missed out on opportunity to be with someone that i have fallen in love with and love with all my heart. My wife and i ...