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Archived questions from: 30 October, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

We work together and talk all the time, but I just can't get round to asking her out, help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - There is this new girl who has started in the office, she's a really nice person both asthetically and personality wise. I talk to her on msn about random things for at least a good hour every day. I've discovered that i fancy her a little on both ...

I know he fancies me, but he wont do anything, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - ok um this is my first time asking a question so plz excuse me if somethings wrong, ok i have never givin oral sex before, with the exception of kissing i have done nothing close, and anyway there is this guy who i really like and is always giving ...

She says I need to open up more, my mum says its a modern thing, who's right?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I've had a woman say she NEEDS me to open up more. She says its a need not a want. And needs intimate details, to exchange with her friends.She's had a couple of failed relationships. I'm a bit unsure about this, so asked my MUM. She said i'm a so...

Did I have to dump this guy to make him interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone i really like because he wasnt sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wondering if men w...

I'm not confident around Women! How do I build my confidence??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I'm a confident person, but whe it comes to women and relationships, I'm awful. I've tried, and I've tried, and I've tried to be confident around women I'm attracted to (even when I fake it) but I always blow it when it comes to the date. A few girl...

Should I be worried about my partner's porn watching?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hi i know my partner watches porn he also downloads it on the internet it bothers me sometimes because he trys to hide it i would rather him tell the truth, it also makes me feel am not enough for him but recently i found a half naked local woman on ...

My best friend was going out with a guy for a while. She left him, and me and him had a "thing", but now she wants him back because she's in love with him! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - my best friend was going out with this guy for a while, but then she broke up with him and now she wants 2 get back with him and she is proper in love with him but me and him have got a little "thing" goin on and she is proper into him and i duno ...

My guy doesn't like spending money. We don't ever eat out, or go on holiday. I'm starting to get fed up! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I've met a man I love. We get on well. The problem is he is very mean with money. He doesnt like eating out or going on holidays. We end up always doing the same things going to the same places so he doesnt have to spend much or no need to spend ...

Should me and my fiance try to start things up again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - M fiance broke up with me just over a fortnight ago, the reason being, she felt I had jealousy issues and did not do enough for her son (even though we do not live together) I tried to get her to change her mind, but when she stated that her ...

Should I move on, or what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - hi i was wondering if you could help me my boyfriend and me just broke up cuz he said he just needed time i got my friend to go up and ask him does this mean you'll go out with her later should i keep looking for a new man or do i wait?.........im ...

When should I put pressure on him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - where do you guys think a dating relationship between two mature adults should be at the end of the third year of dating? do you think we should be engaged? do you think we should be planning a wedding? how long would you recommend waiting before ...

When is the good time, to start living togetehr?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi everyone! So I have a BF (5months now). We have a great relationship and we love each other. I know he is the one - I never felt this way for anybody and he saiz the same. The guestion is ... When do you think is a good time to start liv...

He went and told his friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I gave my boyfriend head in the school bathroom and he went and told his friend and she asked me about it i told her no i didn't how do i tell him to not tell our business to anyone?...

How do I handle the manipulation from somebody that I love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I met my x girlfriend in March 2002. We got on well and we decided to be together. In Feb 2003 she started renting her council property and moved in with me. For the first year everything was fine, but then I started to see her in a different ...

We have just had a baby and now he wants to sleep with other women.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - We've been together 2 years. He's been fathering my 4 year old and we just had a baby in August. We bought a house in June. He just told me he wants to sleep with other women for new and different experiences?!?...

Why do men always find someone else first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Why do most men always get another woman before they break up? Are women braver than men? ...

Shall I settle for second best?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - There is this girl who asked me out i kinda like her but i also like this other girl who will never like me. i am afraid if i say yes to the girl i might break her heart.what do i do?...

Can he really mean those words after two years?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend of just over 2 years ended our relationship for good 1 week ago. The first year of our relationship was fantastic we were so in love and talked about living together, marriage etc. Things started to slow down April this year whe...

He thinks our relationship is getting too serious and wants to think about it...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I was in a relationship for three years, two of which I lived with the guy and we were engaged to be married next year. I began having doubts quite a while ago but stuck it out to see if things changed, which they didn't. During the last month or ...

Can I trust him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I have been very un-trustful with my fiancee since I found out he had cheated on me 2 years ago. I forgave him but will never forget. So now I find myself looking through his e-mails and have recently found out that he has been registering onto sex ...

Attracted to female bodies but prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - I am attracted to female bodies but I prefer to have sex with a man. What does this mean for me?...

Am I just wasting my time with him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

30 October 2007 (?) - I'm with my boyfriend nearly 2 years and we were in bed on Sunday evening and having a real heart to heart chat about various things in our lives... He was saying that he doesn't want to buy/build a house as he is afraid of the committment of it ...

My boyfriend has become sexually 'lazy'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has a low sex drive and I have a high one. If he does get horny it's either when he's drunk or if it's about 2am and I'm asleep. On top of that he cums quickly and it takes him hours before he can go again. It didn't used to be like ...

Do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Question for men.. do men realise they really like someone after they get dumped?? May sound like a silly question but I had to break up with someone I really like because he wasn't sure about whether he wanted a relationship, just wonderin...

My family are living in the past! How can I get them to accept that I'm no longer depressed?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I recovered from depression about 4 months ago and I'm having real trouble dealing with 'the aftermath'. Actually it's more that everybody else is having trouble; I'm doing really well at college, have a job and an amazing boyfriend. Overall I'm ...

26, gay, and friends with a 17 year old. He lets me do things to him... but he insists he's straight. What do you think?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - i am a 26 yr old gay, i met a 17 year old boy and we have a great friendship, he insists that he is straight, but when he visits me, he allows me to cuddle and hug him, kiss him on the neck, and even feel his legsand upper thighs. i feel he might be...

25, about to get engaged... but still have feelings for me ex. What can I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Im 25. Have been with my partner for 3 years. we met immediately after a messy breakup with my ex of 5 years - who was my first love but completely broke my heart. Im still in love with him but im also happy with my current partner. My ex called me ...

4 month anniversary is coming up, and I want to do something special... and cheap!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6134 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hi all.. okay would very much like your help, my boyfriend and i have been together 4 months this weekend, we always like to do something special to mark it (i know that may sound cheesey). Anyway he's taking me for a meal but wants me to do ...

What can I do to make it obvious?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Ok I have been hanging out with this guy for the past month now. we both like each other and know it. we are both a little shy. i want to be more than friends but cant seem to say anything what can i do to make it obvious? ...

I don't want her to call off the wedding or something over this.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (M) - My fiance asked me about my sex past the other night and we got to talkin about it, i told her more or less the truth, i have slept with about 60 diff. chicks (mostly one night stands, a few threesomes and 2 orgies- i had some wild parties)i didnt ...

Why does he feel this way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6239 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - Hello, My boyfriend has it in his mind that he pressured me into having sex with him, I don't think he did. I wanted to and we have done it many times since. But just tonight he confessed as though he feels that he did, I have tried to convinc...

I still love him, but feel real confused.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6238 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I need advice! Please! I have been seeing a married man for over 9 months now. The affair became very intense very quickly. He usually stays with me a couple of times a week. (although, this has reduced recently) He has told me many times he loves ...