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My girlfriend says I am moving too fast

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Question - (4 October 2007) 7 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my girlfriend said im moving to fast and i just got with her recently what can i say to her by text to make her feel that i want her in a soft way?

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2007):

When she says slow down, just do exactly what she says. Although you may love her and she might love u back, she is alienated by your emotions put into words.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

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She is bothered about me. She calls me when I don't call her and she texts when I don't text her

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

Some girls find a strong show of emotions too much to handle. Try asking what she wants of you rather than telling her what you want with her. If you really like her then tell her you will step back a little and let things progress slowly. Dont let her tread all over you though, tell her you cant wait forever and that if she really isnt that bothered you would rather know so you can move on.

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A male reader, Asexy United States +, writes (5 October 2007):

Asexy agony auntShe may mean that there are too many emotions too quickly.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

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iv told her that i dont want her for her moni or for sex i aint the type of guy the would do that to a women but she knws that, i want to tell her how i feel basically pour my heart out but at the same time i dont want to loose her

i sent her a poem which i wrot specially for her and she replied back i need to slow down

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

Well what does she mean moving too fast?

You need to tell her that you really like her alot and you want her to be comfortable and happy with her, its also a good idea to tell her you are not going to force her to do anything she doesnt want to - and mean it.

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A male reader, rcn United States +, writes (5 October 2007):

rcn agony auntJust ask. "What can I do to make our relationship comfortable for you.

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