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My boyfriend ignores my feelings, but when I try to break up he tells me he loves me

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Question - (4 October 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 October 2007)
A female Philippines age 41-50, *dpangel writes:

hi..i just want to ask, why is my bf always ignoring my emotional feelings especially when he dont answers my call and messages..when i would try to break up with him he would just say he love me and my heart always listen to him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 October 2007):

May be he is going through his own tensions and does not want more emotions.... because if he loves u, he will get hurted if you are sad, it will be an emotional overflow for him. Just have a mature talk without letting it turn into fight! Try to understand whether he is facing a problem or not! U will get ur answer...

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

Maybe he love to have a relationship and not you, if he is really into you, you will see it without a doubt. When you tried breaking up with him, he will feel this sudden loss, the loss of being in a relationship and having a girlfriend. If it is this then he is selfish and you will be surprised with how caring other men can be for you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007):

you sure we aint hooked up to the same guy,but ive had all i can take and just as tommy7 said i do deserve better and respect and i know there is loads of guys out there willing to give that to me

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A male reader, Tommy7 United States +, writes (4 October 2007):

You have low self esteem to hook up with a guy who treats you like crap. You should beieve that you deserve better and not allow such disrespect.

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