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writes:okI love my best friendwe have sex regularly, spend most of our time together and flirt all the time, but he says he just doesnt feel the same as i do. does anyone have any suggestions on how ican stop loving him, i just cant help itthank youXxXxX
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): i understand exactly where you coming from. I have a friend that lives in another state that i love very much and suspect he feels teh same way based on how he talks to me etc. like whenever we're on the phone he is always flirting with me and steering the conversation towards sexual but when i told him how i felt about him after night of making out and doing pretty much everything but actual sex he said he only likes me as a friend and i was so confused. I tried forgetting about him and telling my self he is not even worth being my friend since he couldn't respect our boundaries, I have many guy friends and we are strickly friends meaning no flirting and feeling each other and the only reason i allowed him to feel me up, i thought he felt the same was as i did. long story short we are still friends and i am still not over it but at least he knows exactly where i stand and he tries to respect our boundaries now
anyway my suggestion to you is to stop sleeping with him that you are not playing with your emotions
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reader, s from wales  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 I no how u feel, i stil love my boyfriend even though he cheated on me a few weeks ago, you cant just sweep your feelings for some one under the carpet, i told my boyfriend that, but he doesnt have such strong feelings as me, you cant stop loving them but i no as times go buy, especially if you can try and not see that person, even if its only for a couple of days, it gives you time to reflect and look at what you are getting out of this relationship, it hurts so much when they dont feel the same was as you, but you cant force someone to feel whats not there, your feelings have to be mutual, we both no that, but buy seeeing each other its just opening old wounds, I avnt seen my ex boyfriend for a couple of days and will be seeing him later as this is when we will be completly honest with each other, we will both be making a final desicion once and for al, its no good to either of you, leave the space for a true love to come along, let me no how you get on, the love me and you have for those people will subside, i no i have been there before.
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