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writes:My Fiancee and i are Christian. Bible say having sex before marriage is a Sin. What can i do to her so that she can know that i really love and care and need to marry her. Can we spent tog' without having sex or can i kiss her deeply.Please advice.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 October 2007): You can't have sex, Ok but do you really need to do anything like that to prove you love her? She should already know how much she means to you because you want to marry her; but if she doesn't, step up your affection. Cuddle her, kiss her, hold her hand in public; all this stuff makes a woman feel more loved than just sex does.
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reader, Zim  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 First of all, the fact that you two are both engaged is a wonderful thing and is an expression of love all in itself. Sex is not needed to prove that you love someone and yes it is a sin before marriage. A definition I know of love is that it is a very rare friendship with physical attraction. It is obvious that it is happening in this case.
Do things that are romantic and would make her feel special. Are there any things you know about her that you know she would enjoy, like perhaps something as simple as a random hug? Or you could take her out to a posh restaurant and tell her as a surprise. (Its worth checking she's free that night) Things like this are spontaneous and show love and caring for someone as much as the most lavishly planned event. Keep it simple and you will get there. With regard to the deep kiss you refer to I don't see any problem with that. However, it brings along its own temptations and by the sound of it, you perhaps might not have done this yet? If so, be prepared because it is very easy to "let go" so to speak. Saying all this, if you haven't kissed her deeply, then it might be wise to leave it until your wedding night, when you two are free to do what you wish.;-)
I hope that answers your question and congratulations on your engagement.
ZIM
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