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41-50,
anonymous
writes:Ever since i met my husband i have fantasies about him being with other women. I know im his wife and not at all afraid of him leaving me for his other partners. I just want him to get all his fantasies answered. It really turns me on. I am shy though and he is afraid ill get mad if he acts. How can i assure him that its ok. How can we meet women for him to be with?
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (5 October 2007):
 My suggestion is swingers clubs. Just look around they are everywhere. I think this would be the best way to see how comfortable both of you are. You can go to these places and just look to start , then if you want to join in the option is there.
This way if there are any awkward feelings you will at least have the opportunity to leave.
If you meet up with someone you are sort of committed to spending the whole night/day with them, in a swingers club you can just leave if you want to.
But watch your partner, he really may not be into it and lets face it you sound very broad minded so there is every chance that sex with a stranger wont live up to what he gets at home.
Personally I fantasize about my wife being with other men, but I have no interest in having sex with other women as I KNOW that it wont be anything as good as i get at home!
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reader, Tommy7 +, writes (4 October 2007):
There are magazines and websites for swingers. That would be the place to start. It would be best to let him find the girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Hunny,
It seems to me that if your happy with this and you husband is ok with it all then do what ever as long no one gets hurt, As I read your post I presume the reason that you feel this way is your bisexual, Thats the turn on!
As for how you go about it I cant answer that really apart from he probably thinks your going to go ahead with this and then realise, Hang on this is my husband keep your hands off and it could in his eyes be the end off the marriage, so it may be hard to convince him.
But I dont have a clue on how to advise you on how to find other women for him love you take care hunny LOTS OF LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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reader, kenny  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 Like Uncle Phil says you could place an add in a contact mag and seek woman this way. Or seach on the internet for swingers events.
But be absolutely sure that this is what you want before you persue this avenue.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): I suppose the best course of action would be to place an ad in a contact mag or Cosmo.
That's not to say it's something I would recommend!
Phil
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