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writes:Please help...I'm very confused.There is this guy that I am interested alot. He is what I would call the perfect man. He may have some flaws but they are tiny. We used to go to school together but never really saw each other. Resently one of my friends invited me to a church group on thursday and sunday nights that alot of people we know go to. We also go eat afterwards. The guy I am very interested in, goes to this group as well. This of course made me very happy. Last sunday he seemed to paymore attention to me than he had before of even at the previous church groups. He would look at me when he thought I wasn't looking. He would also tell stories to everyone at our table but look at me more while he was telling the story. Later when everyone was leaving, I was walking to my car and I had realized I didn't say goodbye or goodnight to him. So I turned around to say his name and I saw him walking towards me already. He came over to me and we talked and joked with each other a bit longer till he said "Well it's gettin late. I guess I should let you go." Then he gave me a very nice hug.(pathetic yes I know but it made me happy that he even did that)I couldn't stop thinking about it and I still can't.My happy bubble burst today when I found out from a friend that the guy is interested in another woman and she is interested in him but are possibly not dating yet...So I guess I am wondering if he was jus bein nice to me and making a "new" friend with me or if he is interested but it's too late...I am very confused and I really like this guy. Can anyone help? Reply to this Question
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reader, ladysuzanna  +, writes (20 October 2007):
 maybe he not has interested has you think maybe he was and when he met you he had second thoughts and someone told you this well if he continues to be nice in a short while you know and don't always believe what people tell you good luck
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reader, samohir  +, writes (4 October 2007):
 The line between just being nice and having a crush, is usually so confusing that somethimes even me cannot separate, which is which.
To put ur friend aside, i think that you need more clear signs of he being interested in you.That only time can show.
If he is interested surely he will show, otherwise i wouldnt suggest you to mix up till its early,you may be misleaden that he likes you and actualy he to be intending being nice and friendly to you. To avoid such difficulties, i think you should let him act, and only THen you can tell.
best of luck
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