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writes: I went out with a nice guy 3 times, knowing I was about to leave the country for work. He knew, too, and it wasn't a problem. While away during these past 8 months we've exchanged brief emails every so often to stay up to date. Although he's gone out with some other guys, he isn't seriously attached to any of them. Now I'm coming home for the winter vacation, about 2 months, and I don't know if I should call him again or not. Am I out of line to stay in touch with this guy knowing that I'm just going to jet again and again and again in the future? Is this arrogant on my part?
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (14 October 2007):
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you seem to take it for granted that this guy want to see you again,i think before you make such a big decision, you should ask your self,does this guy mean anything to me, because you have only seen him three times in 8 month,would it be fair on him for you to stay with him for two months then reject him again whilst your jetting around the world, if you are not a couple why would you want to inflict pain on this guy , what if he gets attached to you, then you jet away again, only thing you can do is phone him, tell him your coming home and you will be only be there for two months and let him make his mind up what will be best for him, then take it from there. good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionContrary to the title - I do not consider this guy an "ex", that would imply that we were a couple. Sheesh.
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