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Archived questions from: 31 October, 2007 (see latest in Dating category)

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Dating: Help and advice

I got dumped, now I've met another girl, but is she right for me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6228 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hi. Please help me with my problem. I was dumped a few months ago by my girlfriend of 2 1/2 years, and I've found it very difficult to cope with. Recently, I have met a new girl. She's very nice. But there are a few things about her that makes ...

Lately, he's been cold and distant.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together several months, and I was extremely happy. He was all I could ask for. Lately though, he's been cold and distant. I don't get calls, replies to emails, or even a simple "I hope you're feeling better" when I was ...

Do I like him or am I just missing him as a friend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6226 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have a friend who I am very close to. He has a gf. The other day he told me that he really likes me and finds me really attractive. But i didnt want to get between him and his gf. But recently i havnt been able to see him (i am ill), and i have...

When is the right time to make the first move, I don't want to scare her off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - when is the right time to kiss a girl in a relationship. i don't want to do it to early and scare her away or seem pushy but i don't want to do it too late and seem uncaring or not interested. any help would be great. thanks....

We were friends with benefits, now I want a serious relationship, can I trust him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6067 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Alright so we started out as a one night stand about 3 years ago when I was 16 and he was 23. After that we became friends with benefits and remained that way for a long time, while I was completely in love with him. I started applying pressure to ...

A boy dumped his girl to be with me, but now I have a boyfriend, help me I don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i really really like my boyfriend and he likes me but i also like this other friend of mine. Here's the story the friend who i liked had a girlfriend while i was single but he recently broke up with her for me but now im not single anymore. he said ...

I fancy this guy at work, I think he likes me as well, but how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i have found myself being attracted to a male colleague, he has a fantastic sense of humour and is chatty and friendly with all members of staff,though just lately he seems to be paying me more attention,he initiates silly games,flicks me with tea ...

I've got a new guy, how long should I wait before getting intimate

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - If you're dating a guy, you get along great and there's obviously a lot of sexual tension between you. How long should you wait before you get intimate...would 2 to 3 weeks be too early? or do you think you should wait longer?...

Torn between two guys!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6235 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - ok im 15 and im kinda torn between two guys. lets start with guy number 1: fine i know that guy since last year and we really hit it off and he really liked me back we used to flirt 24/7 and then suddenly we stopped talking [we dont even kn...

How can I make his return special?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6192 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend has been working away from home for the past few weeks. The night before he left, I planned a night in at our house (we live together) with candles, wine, food, bubble bath, the works. Now I want to plan something for the night he...

I don't know if he is serious about me, how can I tell?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5845 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - i love my boyfriend very much but he doesnt seem as serious as me and i dont wanna make a fool of my self by acting all lovie dovie. what do i do?...

He's giving me mixed signals.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. This lad keeps staring at me and even when his friends try and talk to him he doesnt stop looking. My friends look over for me and when ever they do he is always looking.We always talk over msn and he described the girl he ...

My ex has a pregnant new gf and I feet guilty for the kisses. Still love him, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I lost my virginity to a guy i was dating nearly two years ago..he ended things quite soon after because he got back with his ex....so i never really got over him but carried on with things as normal. Completly out of the blue i ...

What other 'little things' can I do to be romantic?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Hello Im the first to admit Im terrible at being romantic, but I try. My girlfriend says I need to be more romantic, but I dont get what she is asking for. I take her flowers now and then, chocolates, leave little notes etc. We stay in o...

My boyfriend wants to be there for girls night out

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Any ideas on how I handle this one. I am having a 'girlie' night at my house on Friday with nine old friends and my boyfriend who loves cooking has offered to cook us all a curry, preparing it Thursday and then coming after work on the Friday to do ...

I want to leave my husband for my secret boyfriend, but am afraid my family will be angry

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I am in such a difficult situation that I am feeling really desperate with nobody to talk to about it. I have been married for 11 years and have been unhappy for the majority of it - although I have tried to dig in and keep going trying and hoping ...

I am cheating on my fiancee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6001 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I'm having a big issue in my life. I got engaged at the beginning of 2006 with my fiancée who's been with me since 2004. I'm 28 and she is 23. Initially in 2006 when we got engaged things went great..it was refreshing for our relationship…it ...

My ex is dating my cousin and I am afraid he will hurt her, too.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I once was involved with a guy who was several years older than me. We were close for many years, then he hurt me. It made me hate myself to the point of almost suicide because I loved him soooo much. Now my cousin is getting messed up with him. I ...

Is a wedding a good venue to make a move on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - Ok so I've been friends with this girl for about a year. I've invited her to a huge family wedding to which she gladly accepted. I have had a thing for her for some time and this is going to be our first one-on-one type of thing. There is ...

What kind of reactions should I get if he's interested?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I want to approach an attractive guy who I know from school. I'm not sure how to get his attention. We know each other from our business program, but I want us to be more than acquaintances. I don't want to ask him out right away, so what should I ...

Should I just continue being friends and see what happens in the future?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I need serious advise people [i am 18]. I have liked this kid ever since i started talking to him three years ago. But the problem is i dated his cousin over a year ago. However, i still like him and i know he likes/liked me too. We have so much in ...

He is lazy, we argue , then he threatens to leave, what should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6236 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I argue all the time about work that he is supposed to do around the house. We have been together 5 years and live together. It really upsets me when he yells at me. Then, he always wants to break up as being the only resolution ...

This boy is sending mixed signals, its driving me crazy, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6237 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I have had feelings for this boy for over a year now. I recently found out that he had feelings for me as well, but he's not sure how he feels anymore. I told him how I felt...which ended with him asking if we could pretend the situation never ...

She's really upset, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6137 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - alright i have a big problem i am moving away from my school to a whole other town separating me and my girlfrend and shes really upset what do i do help...

He's sending mixed signals, it's so frustrating, what can I do!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5947 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - I'm really confused about this guy I know. He is definitely attracted to me (and I to him) but he keeps sending mixed signals. He goes through these periods of time flirting with me in a very obvious way and then when it comes to a point that he ...

What do I day to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6238 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - hi i been in a realtionship with my girlfreind for over 2 years and i feel like the passion is gone and we dont talk and when we talk i really dont no wat to say to her i need help...