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Archived questions from: April, 2015 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Is my personal trainer flirting with me, or only business?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - I have this personal trainer, very early days that messages me, is really friendly in person and asks about my day, my life, my history from school and where I've lived, talks about himself and what he hopes to do in the future. Sometimes when he ...

Why does every girl just want to be friends? I don't get past date three. And now this girl'stopped texting me !

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

30 April 2015 (M) - so this girl was a regular customer at my store, and we had so much in common. (How many girls love giant monster and horror movies lol) and we started hanging out, nothing serious at all. We would watch cartoons together over Skype and text all the ...

What are your opinions and reasonings on when sex should occur?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3482 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - After a while of not having sex, I recently did, with a guy who I met a couple of hours earlier. It's not something I do often, it actually takes me a while to start liking a guy enough to want to hook up, but on my opinion if I find someone I like ...

Is my Bf telling me about a crush he once had on a pretty girl, only to make me jealous?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

30 April 2015 (F) - my bf recently told me about a childhood crush of his and how pretty she is and how beautiful her smile is.I m feeling insecure becausezp if she loves him too he might leave me. At times i feel my bf really loves me and is doing this just to make ...

She is on my mind all the time. Should I tell her or hold in my emotions?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3484 days ago

29 April 2015 (M) - This has been on my mind for a while now. It happened a few days ago, but I am not sure where to progress. This is a long story, so bear with me. So here it is: A few nights ago, a large group mixed with work friends and others who I did not kno...

I'd like to ask her out but I have misgivings of being thought of as a sleazeball!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3483 days ago

28 April 2015 (M) - There's this girl in my honors seminar group at university that I have a sight crush on. While a part of me would like to ask her out so that I might be able to get to know her better, another part of me is reluctant to do so. I really don't want to ...

He's told others that I'm ''easy''. But was what I did wrong to him, by blocking him and ostracizing him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3486 days ago

28 April 2015 (F) - Where do I even start? It all began when I started dating this guy for almost a year and then he dumped me. He started dating his ex girlfriend and I knew right there what a complete jerk he was. But, when he and his "new ex girlfriend thing" b...

Unrequited feeling for a guy. Will I ever find a guy who really likes me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I am 20 and I had an unrequited feeling or is that what you call it at a guy i know for 8 years. All my life i have known, that I had liked him a lot but I was unable to confess and hid it all this time. Instead I find joy and happiness just w...

I'm having sexual feelings for him but I'm not yet ready to have sex. What can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - I'm 24plus and my guy is 29plus. He has been my childhood friend but as of last year he asked me out. We both love each other and as of this having been having sexual dreams which both of are involved. Now have been having sexual feeling towards ...

I am crushing on my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3485 days ago

27 April 2015 (F) - So I'm a terrible person. Today, I couldn't stop thinking about my best friends boyfriend. Today, was the worst day ever because I haven't ever felt so much good and bad. We were all hanging out and ever so slightly we'd periodically look o...

How do I give him the green light?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3481 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Hi lovely people! Please, before you think 'not another girl with an impossible crush on a gym instructor', he's 3 years older than I am, and not the 'typical flirty gym guy'. He doesn't flirt with anyone else. Not just from what I can see, but...

Friendly or flirty, how to tell the difference?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

26 April 2015 (F) - Hello there I have been a member of a Facebook group for a few months. The group is for people who are interested in history and has a couple of thousand members. It's a great place to chat to people about our interests in history, share p...

Is it too risky to spend time with this very sexually experienced guy considering that I want to remain celibate until I marry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

25 April 2015 (F) - Hi, About 3 months ago I met this guy and we started talking! he told me that when he was in high school and university so let's say a time frame from 18-24 he lived a pretty risqué lifestyle..and has been with a lot of women! he was in serious r...

Can a marriage last if only one side is in love with the other?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Ok so I've got in to a big mess and take full responsibility and need some advice. Please don't judge me as I hate myself enough right now..... 8 years ago I met a wonderful man whilst visiting some friends in another part of the UK. We hit it o...

Twin brothers - I have a crush on one, but I think the other twin likes me. What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3479 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hey friends, so I need advice. I'm a female, in college, and I met this pair of twins - we'll call them "A" and "B". Both of them are super nice, and we started talking and all 3 of us just clicked immediately. A is super outgoing, and so...

How can I convince myself that this is my mind playing games? Or is my FWB interested in another?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3487 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - My FWB and I have being seeing each other for a year now. I'm Starting to fall for him and I ADORE him. I don't know if he feels the same but I'm too scared to tell him how I feel. For a while I've always had issues with jealousy and recently he...

I have a crush on my dentist!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3489 days ago

24 April 2015 (F) - Hello, this is quite embarassing but... I'm 30 and some months ago I started developing a crush on my dentist, which is 20 years older than me! He is handsome and kind, also he looks younger but I have never felt attracted by older men before...

Short of being completely blunt and rude, how can I discourage his apparent interest in me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3491 days ago

23 April 2015 (F) - I have to ask because this has been bothering me for more days than I can count.. If anyone has good advice, I would really appreciate it ! There's a guy at work who I am not remotely attracted to. But he seems to be attracted to me. He is a l...

He used to go around with girls who did not meet much to him, so could he love me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (F) - I have a buddy who is a guy. We have been friends for almost 10 years and we kept in touch through social media n chatting apps as I moved away for higher studies. Recently, he confessed that from the time we met, he liked me but could not muster ...

I never had the chance to confess my love and to ask if she'll give us a shot! Do I keep this bottled up or go confess?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

22 April 2015 (M) - Dear Cupid, I recently wrote here asking for advice on asking my highschool crush out, whom i haven't seen in a while. I decided to bide my time and wait a few months till i've change and decided to focus on career instead. A few weeks ago I deci...

I'm love struck. How can I tell him how I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3493 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - I am still love struck for my secret love he is smart funny and makes me laugh I need to tell him I like him in some way I cant hide it anymore it bugging me what should I do? we hang out all the time and whenever we are around his siste...

Should I be too scared to say anything, just in case I'm reading too much into this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Im in love with a guy and every time I see him im heart stops but im not sure how to read if he likes me. I have known him for 8 years now his ex step daughter and my daughter are friends we both stay in the same street when I see him he always g...

20 year age gap. I like his mind. Shoud I pursue this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

20 April 2015 (F) - Hi Agony people, I'm in my mid twenties and have feelings for an older man. I dont find him beautiful or a sex bomb. I love the way he thinks and uses his mind. He is similar to me in this way. His career or lifestyle doesnt factor into...

How can I tell this boy that I am really into him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3494 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Dear cupid I really like this boy but every time I talk to him I feel weird inside. I like him because we have so much in common we both love art and drawing We're both really smart and fun so how do I tell him I'm really into him? I hope you...

Does this guy like me or is he just being nice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - I really like the guy over the road from me and im not sure if he likes me he always smiles at me and stands looking then when he gives me a lift home in the car when we drop people off he looks im the mirror and askes if I want to move in to the ...

I like someone online but I have a real boyfriend. How do I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - There is a lot I love about my boyfriend of 3 years but recently I have an online crush with someone from a videogame I play. About this time a year ago, I started to like someone online as well and even told my boyfriend about it because we usual...

Is it to soon to ask for a STD test before I rekindle with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3496 days ago

19 April 2015 (F) - Hi I'm single I just got a call from an ex and he told me that he has been in love with me for years. Our chemistry is awesome he wants me to come to another state to visit him. I call him an ex because we were friends at one time but sex was neve...

How do I talk to him about what we have happening here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3495 days ago

18 April 2015 (F) - A few months ago I ended up sleeping with my friend after we both got drunk at a party. Since then we've been hooking up semi regularly, I sometimes stay over at his house and we always have sex and fall asleep cuddling. However I've had feelings ...

How do I stop myself falling for an older married man?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3492 days ago

17 April 2015 (F) - Please don't judge me on this, but I'm falling for an older married man. I see everyday and can't avoid him (tried not possible). At first I noticed him watching me all the time, then he would offer to help me out all the time which I admit al...

How can I deal with the hurt? I am in love with my best friend. My feelings are not reciprocated.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

16 April 2015 (M) - I'm in love with my best friend and don't know what to do. We first met about 2 years ago and ever since have been the best friends. I had always fancied her but had never taken it any further for fear of it affecting our friendship. The previ...

Are we dating or are we in a relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

15 April 2015 (F) - So there is a guy that I really like, but I'm confused about what we are. We went out for a few dates etc and really hit it off. We have similar interest and I would like to go to the next level with him. So far we've went on about 4 dates. Recent...

Is it normal that I'm thinking so much, (sometimes) about this guy I have a crush on? He works in a local shop I visit.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3497 days ago

15 April 2015 (F) - I really fancy this guy, i don't know him but he works in a local shop which i shop in a couple of times a week...but i find that some days i can't get him out of my head and then i have a few days when i can't be bothered and don't think about ...

Why continuously flirt if you don't mean anything by it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

15 April 2015 (F) - There’s this guy I used to work with, I now work for another company but in the same building and the same floor as the guy does, well, he passes by my office everyday and takes the stairs when there’s an elevator he could take that’s even closer to ...

This girl feels bad that I like her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (M) - So my friend was talking about me to a girl I like and she said that she thinks she likes me and she feels bad for not feeling the same way. I won't lie, I am a bit crushed by this news. I'd love if it were possible to possibly get her to like me ...

Should I respond or was she giving me the brush off?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (M) - Hi, I met a girl nearly a month ago we met at a party and we've been exchanging messages ever since. She has been on holiday and came back to start a new job. I asked if she wanted to meet up again this week and she said sure what time etc. Well ...

Why does this older guy ignore me after knowing how I feel for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3500 days ago

14 April 2015 (F) - Hello there! well I'm 18 years old girl ,studying in college English honours.I'm an artist as well as I'm an independent singer/song writer. I'm in love with a person since two years who is 26 years old. He's my friend's cousin brother. Ofcours...

Should I talk to my co-worker before going out for a drink with another co-worker?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

13 April 2015 (F) - I'm looking for an outside opinion on this please, as the people I know are way too close to the whole thing I think. Ok I'm almost 30 and I've worked for my current employer for 2.5 years, and in that time I've become very good friends with two...

Yes I'm flattered by the attention. But Why is it only African American girls who like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

13 April 2015 (M) - I like the situation, I just don't get it. I mean it's not EVERY girl, they just happen to be. Every girl that hits on me or has interest in me is black. It's flattering, always good to be liked. I love black women every bit as much as a woman o...

I want to overcome my fear of starting a conversation with him.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3466 days ago

12 April 2015 (F) - i don't have a lot of relationship experience. It has taken me some time to figure out what it is I want out of life…one thing is to get married! currently, i think i like this guy but i seem to be unable to give off any signs that i like him…i ...

I'm a gay woman in a long-term relationship, but after getting my dream job I find myself very attracted to a male coworker!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - I’m seeking advice from those wiser than me! I have a situation unfolding in my life that has proper knocked me for ten and got me baffled. I feel I could really do with some second opinions as to what is going on. I’m a gay woman in a long ...

He wants casual but I want a relationship, should I give him what he wants?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3502 days ago

11 April 2015 (F) - I feel like im loosing my mind. I met a mysterious guy and we got on so well, he told me he felt comfortable around me, making me feel relieved and srawn even cloaer to him, but recently he told me he only wanted a casual relationship.I'm 18 and ...

Should I invite my crush and his friend out to swim?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

10 April 2015 (F) - I met a cute guy in the fall in my swim class that i unintentionally fell for. We talked a few times in the fall, but not a lot. During the winter, we didn't have class together, so i never saw him. But its the beginning of the spring quarter and ...

Confused, in love, but stuck! Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3505 days ago

9 April 2015 (F) - Any advice would be great please.. So the thing is, I'm 24 now and this all started many moons ago when i was 10. I've always been mad after this lad I've been close to, I literally fell head over heels with him. We have always been on off where we ...

Could there be anything there?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3501 days ago

9 April 2015 (F) - Don't know what to do?? There is this guy I know from years ago, I am friends with him on Facebook but we haven't spoken to each other properly for years. We don't live close by to each other anymore and not in the same social circles. We are...

Should I get in contact with him? Text him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3506 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - Hi I recently met a boy out clubbing the last couple of weeks. We have spoken about meeting up, but since Saturday night he never text me like he said he would. I really like him- should I text him? No nasty comments please. Thanks ...

What can I do about my husband's infatuation and his need to talk, all the time, about a girl he works with?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3503 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - I am so frustrated with my husband! We have been married ten years but together for 15. I thought things were really good we have a child both have good jobs and holidays. Right now we are on a family holiday. My husband keeps bringing a girl up ...

Sharing and Caring? A time for advice that is empathic, not judgemental? Some notable differences I've noticed that have saddened me. Can this be addressed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3494 days ago

8 April 2015 (F) - This is not really a question as it is a suggestion for this site that I would like to share. I've been visiting this site on and off periodically for several years. And because my visits here are intermittent and sporadic, I never made my own prof...

Why has she never noticed me as a potential boyfriend and not just a friend who's there for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3499 days ago

6 April 2015 (M) - Hi! I really need advice. I've been friends with this girl for a long time now. So we're practically best friends. I go visit her often and she trusts me wholeheartedly and the feeling is mutual. But the past month or two, I've started to like her. ...

I think that I might be in love with my best friend but he is ugly and I have no idea if he likes me like that!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3508 days ago

6 April 2015 (F) - I think (80%) that i'm in love with my best friend (boy) but he is ugly and i admit that. Beside that fact that his face is full of pimples, he has elephant ears, a very long face and he is like 10 15/64 inch (26 cm) taller than me, he is funny and ...

How do you stay 'good friends' with someone when you really fancy each other? Would it be better to just cut all ties?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3507 days ago

6 April 2015 (F) - This site looks great!! So glad I came across it. My question that I have is about friendship between a man and a woman. I have had an on off 'thing' with someone at distance for a few years and neither of us are quite ready for a proper ...