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Yes I'm flattered by the attention. But Why is it only African American girls who like me?

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Question - (13 April 2015) 3 Answers - (Newest, 13 April 2015)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I like the situation, I just don't get it. I mean it's not EVERY girl, they just happen to be.

Every girl that hits on me or has interest in me is black.

It's flattering, always good to be liked. I love black women every bit as much as a woman of another race, ethnicity, etc.

At work, all the girls who hit on me are African American. When I go to this convenient store regularly, two of the girls there are always trying to get to know me and get me to talk to them.

Out of all the girls who have liked me, or been upfront about it, or hit on me, almost all have been African american.

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A male reader, CMMP United States +, writes (13 April 2015):

Black people are quite a bit more forward than most other races. If you have a style that looks somewhat urban, maybe they feel like you'd be open to an interracial relationship.

I've been hit on by black women more than all other races combined (considering most women don't hit on men).

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2015):

It's hard to say without knowing what you look like ie are you olive skinned with dark hair or fair skinned with fair hair etc.. I am English with fair skin and fairish hair but tend to be attracted to Italian men, particularly men with very dark hair and rugged features who seem warm and passionate and they seem to attract to me moreso than fair haired English guys. No idea why - the laws of attraction are interesting. It could be something within/an energy... not sure. Maybe we give off vibes/subliminal messages that attract certain people/types of people physically and in other ways, spiritually etc .. I do find it an interesting topic. Why do you ask about this? Is there a particular physical 'type' of woman that you are attracted to yourself?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (13 April 2015):

Maybe you have very ethnic features that stand-out. Maybe you read some posts on this site recently; and decided to makeup a story inline with what you've read. I don't think there is really any particular reason, and there is an implication and undertone behind your comments that don't smell right.

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