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writes:I met a cute guy in the fall in my swim class that i unintentionally fell for. We talked a few times in the fall, but not a lot. During the winter, we didn't have class together, so i never saw him. But its the beginning of the spring quarter and he's enrolled in the swim again. However, due to money issues, i'm dropping to part time status, so i won't be taking swim anymore. I am thinking about asking him and his friend to come swimming with me and my friend(whom, like me, is also dropping to part time) during the open pool hours on campus. I dont know if asking him to swim with me would be weird/creepy. I added him on fb and messaged him once about the class over winter break, but that was months ago. During class today,the 4 of us (me, my friend, him, his friend) talked a bit, but i don't know if he would find it weird if i asked him, since i haven't really talked to him much. I actually spent more time talking to his friend than him. He seems like a pretty quiet guy. He didnt really talk to anyone but his friend. He only talked to me when i talked to him, and made no effort to initiate a convo.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (13 April 2015):
 OF course you should ask him... what is the WORST thing that he could do if you ask him????
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (10 April 2015):
 You've posted this question before and received many answers encouraging you to just ask the guy out. You will only get more of those responses this time around. Why are you dragging your feet? "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/id-like-to-talk-to-him-more-but.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2015): Yeah ask him why not x
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reader, llifton +, writes (10 April 2015):
 You should ask him. Why not? There's only something to gain and absolutely nothing to lose. After all, if he says no, it's not like you have to see him in class. And if he says yes, well, then you're in! Just ask him! It can't hurt. And at least in the end, you'll know how he feels.
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