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Archived questions from: February, 2014 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

I recently read my old diary and now the urge to contact my first crush is driving me nuts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3917 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - I discovered a diary recently from my high school days . Reading through it I became overcome with nostalgia. I had described my first crush in detail as teenagers do, and of course, with social media these days I looked him up online. I found that ...

Does he like me or trying to make me jealous?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

28 February 2014 (F) - so im a teenager and here is a guy i like called 'sam' well i've kown him for months but recently we are much close than before. when the school started he started to treat me diffrently. like he always tease me and he jump from no where when im ...

Should I tell my FWB I'm talking to someone else?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3918 days ago

27 February 2014 (F) - Should I tell my FWB that I'm taking to somebody else? It's not sexual with the other person, but it is something I see turning into a relationship with....

I want this new relationship to go well. How do I make it work? Because I push people away to keep them at an emotional distance from me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3919 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - in my group of friends i always tend to be the one who comes up with the funny and clever comebacks insults and jokes mostly because i try to keep people at an emotional distance from me while still being "part of the group" (im actually very nice ...

Does a past abuse relationship impact on my future relationships? I keep pushing people away.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3911 days ago

27 February 2014 (M) - Hi folks, i have a problem. I was in a rather emotionally abusive relationship that i broke out of almost a year ago and ever since i have been kind of rude and pushing people away to keep from getting close to any women, is this normal? what shou...

My crush says she doesn't trust men, but I really like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

24 February 2014 (M) - now being a freshan in high school, dating is fairly useless. I like this girl and we are great friends, so i decided i wanted to date her. i have given her gifts, hugged her, and put my arm around her all in order to get her to like me a little ...

We've both confessed that we like each other, but he seems to be talking less?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

23 February 2014 (?) - We've known eachother for a few months now, met up a couple of times, and as the weeks went by I started to like him. We would talk to each other almost everyday, and feelings got stronger on my part. The other day, we were both flirting like crazy, ...

Do I get in touch with my crush from a distance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3914 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - I have a crush on a chap who has a travel agency, who my friend introduced to me at one party, but I left shortly after and even travelled somewhere else...now I am back and live in that new place...would it be OK to send his a business e-mail about ...

He is eight years older, I like him and I think he likes me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

23 February 2014 (F) - Ok so I'm at my moms friends house all the time ...I sleep here almost every night. She is like another mother to me and I've known her my whole life. She lives with her husband, her kids, and her brother in law. They are all like a family to me and ...

She says she wishes she met me earlier.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

23 February 2014 (M) - I have a female friend, She herself greets me and talks to me. She is in a relationship with a guy. But at times she says she wishes she should have met me earlier and that I'm very sweet. She really does try to make an interesting conversation ...

Big Girl with Low Self Esteem. And I just lost my virginity to my married friend. What should I do now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

22 February 2014 (F) - I’m sort of a big girl who has always had a very low self-esteem because of my size. As a matter of fact, up until a week ago I was still a virgin at 26 thanks to my insecurities. I’ve been best friends with a guy since high school that I’ve alw...

Teen guys: how to 'read' a teen girl who may have a crush on a guy. Tips

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22 February 2014 (?) - you know you like her, but you don't know if she likes you? well, no you don't, because she hasn't told you, because girls are quite shy about the topic of love. she may however, give you hints and signs. sweaty palms means she likes you. if she ...

Girls: getting over your crush. After all, if he can't value and respect you - then who needs him?

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21 February 2014 (?) - so you had a crush on him, and you were pretty sure he had a crush on you too. you gave your precious heart to him, and he totally stamped it in to the ground, because the next thing you know, he's with another chick! so, what to do? firstly,...

Have I said too much too soon? Or should I be more frank with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3924 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - I am 24 years old and I struggle to act interested in guys. I have friends who are so full on with guys and scare them away that i try my best not to be like this and act uninterested usually. I work with a guy I really like who is professional but ...

My crush has an incurable illness. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

21 February 2014 (F) - So, the guy who I'm interested in announced to the class that he had an incurable illness. He told us in november, and it's now February. I'm still not over it, and every day, I just become more and more in love with him. The day he told us, I sp...

How do I ask a girl I like out on a date?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - I really like this girl at College but not entirely sure she feels the same. We get on really well and talk all the time. However, I have only known her for around three months because she started the course I'm doing at the same time. So, I'm not ...

My crush sends me mixed signs!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Hi guys There's this guy that keeps sending me mixed messages. A close friend of his hinted me that he has a thing for me but whenever I try to make a flirty move he backs off and tells me hes tired or its been a long day and cuts the conversation...

Would telling her I find her attractive be a better way to move things forward?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - Hello Cupid I was wondering if it is good idea to tell a girl you like her if you want to move things forward with her . I know the girl for about three months and I want to take things forward by telling her how I feel. I have decided to...

Do I love him? Does he love me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - So me and my step cousin are really close. We clicked the moment my mum got married to his uncle. We'd always stuck together in everything, and at school, (he goes to the same school as me,) we always partner up for projects. We also hang around ...

Almost certain she does like me and I like her. But what can I do? She became distant after discovering her friend likes me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

20 February 2014 (M) - Hi everyone I need some help. I met a girl at college and we got on really well we'd talk outside college quite often and she'd even text me when I was at work asking how it was going. Then she found out that one of her friends who's in our fri...

I have 2 ongoing crushes, but I want none. How do I sort this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

20 February 2014 (F) - Dear Cupid Hey I'm 15 years old and still in high school and I have boy troubles. I have a crush on this boy (let's call him G) and I never felt this way about a guy before, because all the other guys in my school are jerks! The weird thing i...

Shy, friendly, or Friendzoned?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3925 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - So bear with me its a little bit of a long story. I recently (3 months ago) started a new job. I made fast friends with one of the guys I work with. He's 3 years older than me (21). Well every day that we work together he is always super helpful and ...

Should I tell my friend I've fallen for her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - I have recently fallen in love with this girl who is 3 years older than me. We have known each other for 9+ years. Her brother is my best friend. When we were younger, we were like brother and sister, now we have switched to being close friends, ...

Does asking for pictures make him a bad guy?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

19 February 2014 (F) - I can't believe it has come to this again. Last week a met this guy through Uni and instantly started messaging me on Facebook once he tracked me down. And has not stopped since. He was shaping into such a nice guy, even invited me out for ...

Mixed signals from girlfriend's best friend.

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

19 February 2014 (M) - I am getting confused by a girl I have feelings for. I told her a while ago I really liked her and asked her how she felt she just said I'm a no go area. She likes talking to me but says not about that and we should forget about that, but looks at...

He's intelligent and confident and I'm worried I couldn't keep up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3923 days ago

18 February 2014 (F) - I am really attracted to someone - I know he likes me too. The problem is that one of the reasons that I like him is that he is absolutely amazingly intelligent, extremely knowledgeable on loads and loads of topics or, if he isn't, you feel with ...

Teenage girls, where to find the perfect guy, and how to show him you like him without telling him to his face!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

17 February 2014 (?) - augh! its so annoying to watch one friend or another snogging the face off of their boyfriends when you don't have anyone to even like you yet, right? don't know the first place to look for a special someone? why not try doing something you like. ...

Should I ask him out first?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3927 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - There is this one guy I'm interested in he often sends off mixed signals about his feelings towards me. So I've been thinking about either telling him I like him or ask him out to test the waters. but Im not so sure if I should be the one asking him ...

He said he loves my company, but I think I'm in the friend zone

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

17 February 2014 (F) - Hello dear Aunts and Uncles, So, i have recently met a new friend (about a month ago)... The thing is i like him as more than a friend... the other thing is i don't know if there are any chances he might like me back... The night we met he gave m...

He bugged me and bugged me for a nude picture and I never gave in, but I want what we had back! Advice, please!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3921 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Alright so this isn't really a question but more of a combination of a question and a rant. It might be really long but I really need help with this. Its kind of a long story so last year was my first year in highschool. my first seme...

I was flattered that he watched me, then I saw him looking at others too

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

16 February 2014 (F) - Hello. I would like to have your opinions as i really don't know how to take it. I guess he may be interested in me. When i talk to him during lunch time, i notice that when a woman will pass by he will fix her, follow her with his eyes. He does the ...

She knew I liked her, ignored me for a year, and is now engaged to someone else. Why message me now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - So after being ignored by a girl for a year because I told her that I liked her. She has since gotten engaged she sends me a random faceb00k message after a year..."Hi. How you doing?". I reply simply..."I am OK, and u?". She replies..."all good". ...

I want to talk to her but am afraid of looking desperate and getting friendzoned

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3929 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - Hey guys... Another dilemma here. There's this friend of mine I have some feelings for but the past couple of days I've really been doubting myself and any chance of a relationship. I want to talk to her but I feel like I'll just end up looking ...

I'm attracted to a male friend who doesn't feel the same about me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

15 February 2014 (F) - Help!I have a male friend who I am attracted to more than he is attracted to me, he is flaky though and sometimes flirtatious then puts it back on friendship level. He makes no secret of his interests in other women and I make no secret of only bei...

I am in love with him, I think he is gay, but I am not sure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

15 February 2014 (M) - Alright, so I have a problem that I have posted about on here before. It has been years, so hopefully I'n not bothering anyone again with the same question. I am a 20 year old gay (possibly bi?) male. I am in love with one of my sightly younger best ...

He broke up with his girlfriend, and got close to another friend,but I hope he likes me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3932 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - I have four close friends, two girls and two boys ( g1, g2,b1 and b2) and g1 and b1 have always has a kind of thing for each other even though b1 had a girlfriend. However last week b1 got dumped by his girlfriend and g1 and b2 all of a sudden hot ...

He didn't send me a Valentines card. Does that mean he doesn't like me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

14 February 2014 (F) - ok, i've known my crush for almost two years now, and am crushing on him big time. i think he likes me too, 'cos he always is nice, looks at me a lot, flirts with me, his friends tell me he always talks about me, and two have even mentioned that ...

Why do I keep getting crushes on my teachers?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - I've had crushes on about 6 different male teachers but I'm not sure why, my parents are a lot older than most and I have never had a boyfriend or male friend, I don't have any brothers either. I've got really bad anxiety and I worry about things ...

My ex is pregnant, she told me just after we broke up. I offered my support and she rejected that. Anyone else been in this situation? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

13 February 2014 (M) - Well here it goes, recently I got back with an Ex girlfriend who I had dated a few years ago, and I can genuinely say that I loved her then, and that things appeared to be going well second time round. Then it all went downhill. One weekend and ...

How can I stop my ex from harassing me? He wants me back, yet his actions are distressing me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - my ex boyfriend wont leave me alone. ever since he broke up with me, he has been getting into trouble, showing up in all of my classes, and he even asked my best friend out. we only dated for about a month, and even though i told him that i don't...

How can I stop missing someone? How did you stop missing someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 February 2014 (F) - How do I stop missing someone? I havent talked to this guy for almost a month... we were pretty much dating and had a thing for over a month... and he told me I was annoying him because I misunderstood something that he said to me... i just d...

Is it weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3926 days ago

12 February 2014 (F) - Is it weird for me to really like someone I don't know? Okay I've seen this guy a few times in public we have never spoke before but I like him.We know of each other over social networks and stuff but I don't want to approach him because he might ...

My girlfriend wont help clean house!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

12 February 2014 (M) - I need some tips on encouraging my girlfriend be a little more helpful around the house. We have been together 3 years and have lived together in an apartment for the past year. I will be the first to admit that I am not crazy about cleaning, but I ...

Should I keep flirting or tell him I like him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - I currently got to beauty school for nail tech. There I met a guy from the barber class. We talk on a daily basis, but the last couple of times we seen each other his been extra friendly, like last night he gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. ...

Do you think that it's best not to say about my true feelings at him because other way there is the possibility to lose him at all?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3935 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Hello. It's been a lot of time that i haven't written in this column. In the meantime i have got over my ex-boyfriend for ever i think. I don't have feelings for him any more. However, i would like to be friends with him now and have only fun ...

Does he like me or are we nothing to each other?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

11 February 2014 (F) - Hey guys so there is this guy and he's 9 years older than me anyway he's is constantly hot and cold like it's okay for him to say he likes me a lot and misses me but if I say it back he's like stop rushing into things like we've known each other a ...

My crush is sending mixed messages!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - Hi thanks for taking your time to answer this. I currently have a crush on one of my new friends here in college. He's just my type of guy which is rare at my college, we get along really well too. Last trimester we had a few classes to...

Should we stay 'just good friends' at the expense of my heart, or should I cut & run, even if it hurts both of us?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

10 February 2014 (F) - I'm romantically interested in a guy who isn't over his ex, who left him in extremely abrupt circumstances approx. 4 months ago. We get along brilliantly and he's the first person I've ever truly 'clicked' with in terms of personality. The problem ...

I cant stop thinking about the girl at work and I'm totally in love with her....but she has a boyfriend!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 February 2014 (?) - I'm absolutely smitten with this girl at work but she has a boyfriend. I can't get her out of my head no matter how much I try. I'm 25 and she's 22. We work for a small machinery company in the offices. She is top to toe gorgeous, funny, bright, ...

I'm not sur why she may be attracted to me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

9 February 2014 (M) - I always wanted to be wanted by some women now it may have come true but I don't know what to do I don't know why she what she see in me she works in a different dept. in my hotel she always fusses when I order my lunch and tells me I look better ...