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Archived questions from: July, 2012 (see latest in Crushes category)

Crushes: Help and advice

Another crush on teacher...?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - Story about this is kinda complicated so it's the best to start from the beginning: I met him on my first day of high school. He introduced himself as our physics teacher for next 4 years. In that time never even came to my mind that I will ever...

Am I reading too much into things?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

31 July 2012 (F) - How do you ever know if a guy likes you (but is too afraid to tell you) or just cares for you as a friend? I have a guy friend whom I've known for two years. He's helped me a lot and been through a lot with me. One day he suddenly texted "I like you ...

Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - Do I chase the girl I'm sleeping with's affections or give up? I've been sleeping with possibly my best friend of the last 6months for a week or so and we've been hanging out and snuggling in bed etc. I asked her if she wanted to do a proper date ...

Should I keep the a fantasy or should I take things to the next level?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

31 July 2012 (M) - I'm obsessed with this woman i met(im in freshman university). We were both MCs(hosts) for a large concert/show, but i did not know her before the show. She was a much more experienced MC(with a university degree and MCed a lot of big shows) than I ...

How can I get over this crush?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - I'm actually going crazy! I've had feelings for this guy for soooo long! we have some history, and i recently found out that he used to have feelings for me. It's impossible for us to be together though, although i sometimes wonder whether he still...

Why do girls flirt with other guys and ignore the one they have the crush on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4487 days ago

30 July 2012 (M) - Well i have noticed this recently, it's not only happened to me but to others. Well i noticed that when a girl likes a guy she does everything to ignore him and get away from him, even when the guy just passes her and says hello, the girl doesnt ...

I am crushing on a famous person, and I want to stop!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - Okay, so this is going to sound beyond crazy, but I don't know what to do. Please don't laugh.. So, I really, really kind of like a guy, but the problem with it is, he's famous, and I've never met him. He's a rapper, and I absolutely love his...

How can I talk to him? or is it even worth it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

30 July 2012 (F) - So, I like this boy a lot. And He graduated this past school year, and going to college pretty soon, considering summer is almost over. Well, I'm only to begin being a junior, so pretty soon, I'll never have my chance. I'm really shy, but I've ...

Tw guys head over heels in love with me.Torn loyalty to each. What should I do? One has been in jail.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I've got a huge dilemma. I have 2 guys pretty much head of heels in love with me. I was with Guy A for 4 and a half years. 3 of those years were spent getting beat up, abused and treated like a dog. Within that time, I gave birth to his 2 childre...

Fallen in love with my teacher. What should I do? She looks at me too.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - i am 13 year old girl and have fallen in love with my new german teacher ( she is female) i think she knows because in an asemberly all my frends said she was looking at me and when me and my freinds and i were sat out side and she kept lookin at us ...

Why is this guy I like treating me like trash?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I am just very hurt because a guy I liked treats me like a trash or cheap whore something.. He disreapects me and absolutely dose not care about me. He did not ask to have dinner just used me as a booty call. this guy I met at the club. Is...

Does she like me or are we just friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4486 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - Okay so this girl is my friend in school. We'll refer to her as M. Well ima guy so anywho, im not very social however im very smart. and i dont think im too bad looking. maybe a 7 or 8 depending on who you are anywho so the whole school had a class ...

I screwed up majorly!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

29 July 2012 (M) - I screwed up majorly so i was invited to go with a group of 4 to hang at the state fair. great idea! i was thinking, yo, thus gives me a chance to hang with the girl i really like and i can drop hints about my feelings for her and she of she resp...

I see my crush once a year, but lately all my dreams are full of him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I've known this friend of mine for as long as I can remember. He was my 1st friend, my 1st crush and I still like him a lot. I'm 16 and he is only a year older than me. He and his family moved to Arkansas a few years ago and now I only see him once ...

Would you consider this dating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

29 July 2012 (F) - I was 16. I had never kissed a boy before, i had a boyfriends before but never had done more than held a guys hand.(i was a junior and he was a senior) There was a guy i was somewhat friends with.(he's a twin) So i decided to hang out with...

He chose to be with somebody else, even though he doesn't like her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - He wont go out with me because he says Im too good for him, that he wouldnt make me happy, and Id end up finishing with him. We both like each other alot, and everyone knows it. Im a model and I do get alot of attention. He is unemployed and has ...

Should I pursue an online relationship with him? Not sure what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4489 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - My problem isn't really directed at one person although there is a person at the minute. Sometimes, I want to be in a relationship and I see the benefits, but some times I just like being single and don't have the energy to put effort into it. I'...

Can't understand his reaction. Why did he make out nothing happened? We did cuddle. Did I do something wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - Hello Aunts. Recently Ive been spending a lot of time with one of my male friends, I guess at this point in my life he would be my best friend as I spend all of my free time with him. We both have feelings for another but until recently neith...

Do you think this Work colleague likes me, after he said my husband, "would be crazy to not love me"?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4480 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I'm a 35 year old married lady though not happily and on my way out of a marriage. I just got chatting with a collegue and as part of a conversation i said 'i dont thing my husband loves me' and he said 'He'd be crazy not to' Do you think he has f...

He's committed to me. FWB without the sex. So what do we have? And am I being too clingy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I have been with a guy for 5.5 years now. We are both 21 right now. we dated the first 2 years and then we broke up because of something one of my friends at the time told me he was doing. I later found out she lied. He said sorry many many man...

I feel good about trying to clear the air, but was being honest a mistake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - I am in my mid twenties. I have been on about 6 dates with someone and things seemed to be going really..a good pace, good momentum..we text, talk..I didn't feel that anxiety too much wondering if he is going to keep contacting me. The past 2 an...

I was so mad to see her laughing and talking with somebody else, I punched a door!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

28 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, Ok. So I have two problems. Hope you can help me... 1) See I'm a natural flirter, I don't mean to brag but I can make a girl smitten by me in a couple of seconds,not literally but you get the point. But when it comes to my crush. I...

He seems to be putting himself where I am, but not in a creepy way

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4487 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - i work in a relatively large company.there is one man that works within the realm of our large department that makes me curious about him. from the start he has asked co workers to get my personal status and how many kids i have, closed my office ...

I hope my behaviour lets him know I like him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4468 days ago

28 July 2012 (F) - guys what would you think? would you think I am into you? and if not what should I do so that he thinks that? this guy and I live door to door in a students` hostel when he looks at me I often have to play with something (hair or accessory) and s...

We are friends but I have no idea what he thinks/feels about me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - Hi I am a mature single woman who has developed a crush on a guy very recently going through divorce he's around the same age as myself. I have known him about 5 months and noticed he's always looking my way my friend told me the other day he was ...

How do I ask this girl out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - There's this girl I wanna ask out in my college class. I don't know her. She's just a girl in my class. I am a very shy person, especially when it comes to girls. This is only the case before I know a person. Anyway, I made a bit of progress...

I've lost interest in a great guy because of the way he looks! Am I just scared of comittment? Or am I a shallow jerk? Or both?!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4488 days ago

27 July 2012 (F) - I think I have lost interest in someone that I would like not to lose interest in, for shallow reasons. I'm not sure if I'm suffering from commitment phobia or if I'm just a shallow jerk, or both. I had a crush on a guy that managed a local ...

I don't want to seem like the silly friend with a crush on her, so I'm thinking of staying away from her for a few days. Is this a good idea?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Okay, this is going to sound weird but I'M the one who decided I should give my crush a little space from me. There's this girl that I've been crushing on for the last few weeks. I finally got up the nerve to talk to her two weeks ago and I've never ...

Is it too early to ask my friend turned lover how they feel about me after one week?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4491 days ago

27 July 2012 (M) - Is it wrong to ask where a potential relationship is going after a week...? I've been hanging out with a girl for 6 months and she became what I consider to be my closest friend. Then a week ago we slept with each other after a night out. W...

How to entertain introverted and quiet guys if you're introverted and quiet as well?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - I have a big crush on this boy.We're both members of a performing organization in our university. He plays the violin and I play the piano. Because of our common interest in the same music genre, we get along well. We're good friends and we're ...

Should I consider this other man? My husband is not intersted in me. Does this other man only want sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4483 days ago

26 July 2012 (F) - Hi, iam 25 years old married and have a kid,my husband is not interested in doing any sex with me... Nor will he discuss any matters to me. I saw some SMS in his mobile , which is related to a girl. I think he has another affair, if i ask him, he ...

My manager and I have a crush on each other. What advice can you offer on dating, or not dating him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - My manager and I have "secretly" liked one another for the past three months. We never did anything directly due to professionality but I'm sure both of us could tell. And considering he's extremely busy it probably wouldn't have worked out. ...

Girls who like girls. what are the main attributes that attract you to girls?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Girlies question time...........! Based on personal experiences, have you always had an idea you were a lesbian? I mean I have always known, I didn't go through a teenage curious stage I just took mine with the flow. I just wondered whether you'...

Why does she do this to me? Even though she concurrently flirts with other guys?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4291 days ago

25 July 2012 (M) - Well recently i started talking to this girl online, the online messaging was okay. We just chatted about normal things and she didnt seem to flirt too much, so i was not expecting much for our first meeting. So when we finally meet it was grea...

School found out I like my teacher and its all sorted, but my teacher is still avoiding me! How do I act next year to make things better?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - i'm a 14 year old teenager and i have this major crush still on a teacher and at the moment i have summer holidays ,nearly half way through and still feel the same way a lot of things happend last year he even found out because of a student and i ...

Is this enough? So even though I think he likes me, does he really like me ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Hello aunts. Ive looked this question up but honestly it all just seems a little foolish. I have a friend that ive known since elementary school, he's eighteen and recently moved closer to me. I see him everyday and I know he likes me everyon...

Could Dylan be the one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - Lately I’ve been thinking about this guy, Dylan. We’d gone out on two dates back in February. It’d ended as quickly as it begun. He’d made it so easy for me to lose interest with all his talk about superheroes and comic books. I didn’t want to date ...

He has a girlfriend, but I get the feeling he's into me.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4490 days ago

25 July 2012 (F) - I met up with an old friend, who has a new house and a new girlfriend, yet he invites me over every week in the evening when his gf is not there. Is he into me? Okay, the above was basically the cliff notes version. Here's a more elaborate descri...

How do I ask a girl out? I really need help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - How do you ask a girl out? Im a tall guy and the girl i would like to have a relationship with is a shorter woman. I have never had a girlfriend before so i dont know how you ask a girl out. All i need is some good tips and advice. I would like to ...

I have all these feelings for her and I don't know what to do with them. Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4494 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - So I've known this girl for around 10 years and we've always been really close friends but more recently I've developed feelings for her that I just can't seem to shake. Not long ago I decide to tell her how I feel and I asked her to be my GF. She ...

I think I messed up, how do I fix things?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4491 days ago

24 July 2012 (F) - Basically there was this guy, i liked and i didnt know if he liked me back. I already asked people and got some answers about it which told me to man up and show him that i cared. I was more flirty, and so was he, we spent some great times, (...

She usually responds right away but hasn't this time. Is she testing me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - I have been texting this girl for few weeks. Conversations were going really good. Recently they have been like 'what we would do specific times of the day'. E.g. Wants cuddles at night, or me to take her out during the day etc. As if she is pictu...

I slept with a friend but I have a feeling she fancies my housemate!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4493 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - I slept with a friend the night before last and am not sure what to do. We have been hanging out for the last 6 months and there has always been something there but I've really liked her personality and feel very close to her but because she is is ...

I have a crush on a girl, I don't know if she likes me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

24 July 2012 (M) - I am a guy. I have a really big crush on a girl. I had this crush for a long time and dont know what to do. I want to know how I could tell if she likes me or if she doesn't like me. Although this girl has been dating someone. I am not sure if she ...

I think my best friend has a crush on me, but I'm not sure I want a relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4493 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - I hav been best friends with a girl for two years now and things started getting more intament recently but im not sure if i want a real relation ship with her at this point because honestly im still young and want to explore my options befor a ...

I'm not sure of is relationship status, but I really like him, and need some advice.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4494 days ago

23 July 2012 (F) - I met a guy when i started uni last year and I instantly had a crush on him. I instinctively thought he was too cool for me so I didn't try and pursue it. A couple of months after we started uni he started getting to class early (like I did) and we ...

How do I get over someone I never truly had?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4492 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - Back in March, I started to pursue my crush on my friends sister after she initiated contact with me. She asked me to take her fishing and she said yes. My friend then told me that she told him that we were going fishing and that I was going to be ...

She loves me more than I care for her...can this work out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

23 July 2012 (M) - Okay short and simple but really need your views on this. I met this girl and we started dating. Things were going well until she met my sister who did not like her very much and from there it pretty much went downhill. This girl loves me t...

Can I be crushing on two guys at the same time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 July 2012 (F) - So I just met these two guys who are best friends, and we hit it off really well. All week we've been staying up all night together, texting or skyping, and i'm starting to feel something like a crush. The problem is, it's for both of them! I don't ...

She confessed she had a crush on me, but is that still true?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4495 days ago

22 July 2012 (M) - Hi everyone, So here's the problem. 2 years ago I've transfered into a new school. And I've fallen in love with this girl whom I just met this girl. Her childish behaviour, heartly smile, and her angelic face and the good thing about her is tha...