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writes:I have been texting this girl for few weeks. Conversations were going really good.Recently they have been like 'what we would do specific times of the day'. E.g. Wants cuddles at night, or me to take her out during the day etc. As if she is picturing all this in her head.Anyway, after possibly the best days of conversation, she even comes on cam that night briefly to show her face, I crack a few jokes and make her laugh, ends good with her going to bed eventually. I txt her goodnight, get a response. All is good.Next day routine usually is good morning text from me, but today I sent her one, 4hours later no text. (very unusual)So I text her asking if shes okay because she didnt reply. No response. What happened? Im basing this on previous contact, she never takes this long to respond. I cant of done nothing wrong, she was fine.Or have I? Is she testing me? If she is i'll wait.Thanks
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (25 July 2012):
 Hi,
Thanks for follow ups. So no response yet and that makes nearly 48 hours? Maybe a short text to say hello to see if she responds. If not then leave it. All this waiting does your head in as I've been in these situations before. Dont wait and wait. Give her one more text to satisfy your curiosity and then it's up to her. Let us know, thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2012): We have seen each other online many times. I dont think that could of changed her mind unless im wrong. It is very out of character, her behaviour. Still no response. I can leave her alone but once i do that i wont turn back on my decision.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2012): Not to come across in a harsh way, but was this the first time you had seen each other live over the internet? Via skype or whatever else you may have used? Because maybe you weren't what she expected physically? And she didn't want to have to tell you that? I don't know. But I can say one thing. If it's a break in routine, there is probably a reason for it. Maybe she is just busy. Anything is possible, afterall. Give her the benefit of the doubt for a little while. But after a day or two, if still nothing from her or she is acting strange, I would leave her alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2012): We havent met yet, she seemed insecure about herself so I have given her time.Im not the one thats likes sending detailed texts, She always is the one changing direction of the text conversation if I show hints of getting bored or if i stop texting.She will ask me questions like if she can wear my rugby tops etc. And she likes asking alot of questions.I dont know to be honest what she is thinking.I dont want to text again in case it sounds bad, but there hasnt been a day without talking to her.Still clueless..Oh and about meeting, she says soon, she says im breaking down the walls that are around her and she knows she will meet me 'very soon'
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reader, Tom Obler +, writes (24 July 2012):
Hi,
A break in routine is always noticed in these situations. There are a lot of maybe this, or maybe that's here. You have sent your text so there is not a lot you can do really unless she responds. If you don't hear anything today, send one more text and then leave it for her to get in touch. It's no good wondering things because it will drive you mad. I hope she gets in touch.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (24 July 2012):
 Why are you texting and not having a real relationship?
are you long distance? how did you meet?
maybe she left her phone home or lost it or it's not charged.
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